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How much maternity leave did you take?

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user8636283901 · 10/06/2025 17:40

Just that really. How long did you take off?

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Thelostjewels · 11/06/2025 06:50

About 7 year's for both

PurBal · 11/06/2025 06:51

I was ready to go back at about 10 months. Now they’re older I wish I’d taken longer though. Went back at 11 and 9 months.

Middleagedstriker · 11/06/2025 07:01

6 months back f/t
12 months back P/t (though went to uni 1 day a week at 3 months)
12 months though went back to uni 2 days a week at 3 months again.

I hated the 6 months f/t it was horrible. Missed DS so much and stopped after 3 months.

Worked p/t until youngest was 11. Best decision ever for me. Skint but worth it for all that time.

pimplebum · 11/06/2025 07:02

6 months 👍
2 months 🥲

SleepPerChanceToDream · 11/06/2025 07:03

12 months maternity leave, then 4 weeks annual leave, so 13 months with each. Then went back on reduced hours - 27 hours per week.

WannabeMathematician · 11/06/2025 07:07

6 months but DH then did 3.5 months after that. I didn’t enjoy it (I’m meant to be a parent to toddlers and above I think!).

BiddyPopthe2nd · 11/06/2025 07:34

18 weeks (4 of those unpaid). All that was available to me.

onremorehour · 11/06/2025 07:40

user8636283901 · 10/06/2025 18:13

For those of you who took 6 months, did you feel it was enough?

I'd like to take 12 months off but my husband is pressuring me to go back earlier.

Honestly take as long as you can afford. My baby is 7 months and I couldn’t dream of leaving her just yet. I am taking 11 months (have extended it) not sure how I’ll afford but you can’t picture just how much you’ll want the time until they’re here. Honestly

WannabeMathematician · 11/06/2025 08:32

user8636283901 · 10/06/2025 18:13

For those of you who took 6 months, did you feel it was enough?

I'd like to take 12 months off but my husband is pressuring me to go back earlier.

I did, but I knew that was all the time I wanted before hand and I was leaving our baby with my husband so I didn’t feel guilty. For our marriage it was also great my DH is an equal parent because he had those three months to figure out how he should parent without me showing him how or feeling like I was “supervising”.

I don’t think if the baby was going into nursery/childminder I would have been so keen.

Bingbangboo · 11/06/2025 09:21

I took a year off with each of mine, then used accrued annual leave to work a 4 day week for the first few months when I went back.

I would always advise anyone to take as long off as you can, finances permitting. It's such a short time in the grand scheme of your whole working life. Depending on whether you need to use a nursery or have other help, it probably worked out less costly to take the full year than to go back earlier and pay for childcare.

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