How many times a day do you tell your partner you love them?

[Brunocatmon]

If you've been together a couple of years, ups and downs. How many times and in what situations ( for want of a better word ) do you tell your partner you love them?

Are you at "I love you" or ( like me ), " love you night night " type?

We've had an early discussion in our relationship about not automatically saying 'i love you' and not saying it reflexively as a response to the other saying it. It's about saying it when you mean it.

That said, I find I message my partner at least once a day to tell her I'm thinking of her and I love her (it's a LDR). Because I do 🙂

At least once a day. But we’re also very affectionate with each other, always doing little things for each other so I feel loved. It isn’t just empty words and if we didn’t say it one day wouldn’t be bothered as I feel it

Fair enough. Is it bothering you though? Is it bothering your partner? If there are no issues and everyone is happy , then it doesn’t really matter what everyone else does and how they do it.

Id say a couple of times a day. When he leaves for work, maybe during conversations in the phone/text and before we go to sleep. Been together 11 years

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