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Do you think Robert Thompson is truly rehabilitated?

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Cheffymcchef · 05/06/2025 19:04

As we all know, James Bulger was a two-year-old boy from the UK whose tragic abduction and murder in 1993 shocked the world. Taken from a shopping center by two ten-year-old boys, John Venables and Robert Thompson, his death became one of the most harrowing and widely known cases in modern British history. To this day, nearly everyone who hears his name knows the heartbreaking story and the profound impact it had on public consciousness and the justice system.
both boys were released after serving 8 years, when they turned eighteen. John Venables returned to prison twice for possessing CSAM. He is currently still in prison.
I personally think Venables is sick and can’t be “cured” of his attraction to kids. He will always reoffend imo, even if his devices etc are taken away. He needs to stay in prison. He’s also allegedly revealed his identity and needed several new identities costing the taxpayer even more. I know you get all this “stop it now” therapy- I just don’t think pedophiles can be cured. It’s like trying to do conversion therapy on a straight person.
I don’t know how I feel about Thompson- he committed a heinous murder, but did his time in custody. He’s never reoffended and now allegedly lives with a partner who knows who he is. Can’t remember if he has children. From studying this case, it always seems like he was deemed the ring leader, yet he is the one who has cleaned himself up and stayed out of trouble.
both boys allegedly came from abusive households.
I know poor James' mum will never get over his death. I cant imagine the mixed feelings she must have, she likely thinks it was wrong for either boy to be released so young.
I can’t say I’d be too thrilled about Thompson moving into my area if that’s the case, but truthfully I think if he’s done his time he needs to be left alone now to live his life . But that’s probably a wildly unpopular opinion- because James will never get to live his life.
what do you think?

posted in crime but moved here for traffic

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FannyBawz · 05/06/2025 21:07

Copenhagener · 05/06/2025 20:24

I studied journalism at university in northern England, and one of our guest lecturers told this story. They also personally showed up with a stuffed bunny toy embroidered with James’ name to bring to the funeral to persuade the gatekeepers he was friends/family.

He was so proud of it. I ended up never being a journalist.

This is exactly why I completed the NCTJ but never took journalism any further. I found these tales completely horrifying.

YouWillFindMeInTheGarden · 05/06/2025 21:07

Glitchymn1 · 05/06/2025 21:05

Maudsley didn’t deserve solitary. Just read he isn’t happy to have been moved- poor man.

Poor man?? He was costing the prison service a fortune!

Gloriia · 05/06/2025 21:07

CareerChange24 · 05/06/2025 21:04

I thought they believed Robert Thompson was the one who came from a dysfunctional family. Jon Venables came from a stable family so was presumed to be influenced by Robert.

I thought Robert was in a gay marriage with children. Would you feel comfortable if your children went round to his home for dinner? I wouldn’t.

Surely not with kids?! You'd have thought ss would not agree to an adoption with a child murderer?

Kibble19 · 05/06/2025 21:08

So what is the difference between JV/RT’s shitty upbringing and the shitty upbringing that so many other kids have?

Disadvantaged, yes. Exposed to violence, yes. Low income household, probably. Addiction in the family, probably.

But these factors are so common up and down the country. 4 year olds know right from wrong.

They had many people stop or interact with them as they dragged that poor boy, crying and injured, through the streets. 100 chances to stop. Abandon him on the pavement, tell someone in a shop they’d found him and play the hero. So many opportunities to stop. They chose not to, and I can’t personally find one ounce of compassion for them.

Maybe I could’ve before I had my own child. I certainly can’t find any now.

Cheffymcchef · 05/06/2025 21:08

YouWillFindMeInTheGarden · 05/06/2025 21:06

In what capacity did you ‘research’ this case op?

It is a case I studied in detail at school. Like most people i have read about it since, online, books and seen documentaries about it. I’m not sure where I said i researched it. I was simply saying that rehabilitation is a word often used for offenders.

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ilovesooty · 05/06/2025 21:09

Cheffymcchef · 05/06/2025 20:40

The reason I posted this (for people who are angry or annoyed) is back at school in RE we had a debate/discussion about the topic. I am interested in true crime and the opinions of others. The true crime forum here doesn’t have many people on it so posted in chat. If people are genuinely offended it is easy enough to click off. I am not a journalist.

I don't think you need to justify yourself. If people don't think you're posting in good faith they can report.

FleurdeLion · 05/06/2025 21:09

His name is James. Not Jamie.

Please be respectful of that.

Cheffymcchef · 05/06/2025 21:09

Gloriia · 05/06/2025 21:07

Surely not with kids?! You'd have thought ss would not agree to an adoption with a child murderer?

It’s not necessarily an adoption, they could’ve had a private surrogate where he used his new identity OR like his partner she knew his story and agreed to help anyway.

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Cheffymcchef · 05/06/2025 21:10

FleurdeLion · 05/06/2025 21:09

His name is James. Not Jamie.

Please be respectful of that.

I’ve already replied to someone who pointed this out.

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TheCurious0range · 05/06/2025 21:11

Rainbowqueeen · 05/06/2025 20:45

I don’t necessarily think he is rehabilitated but I do think he doesn’t want to go back to prison and is smart enough to know that he needs to stay clean and his identity secret to avoid that risk

Isn't that rehabilitation in itself though? He's developed robust enough consequential thinking and adequate skills to prevent him behaving in the same way again.

I have a child btw for those saying parents won't believe in rehabilitation.

I think Venables is a different kettle of fish, and the further offences also relating to children for be give an insight into the motivations for the original offence from his perspective.
I work in this area and unfortunately deal with serious violent and sexual crime every day. This piece caught the public attention because of how awful it was but also because of the age of the perpetrators. I think there would be free people here who could see what I see every day, it's hard not to believe that human beings are just inherently awful, luckily we get clinical supervision and a huge amount of training, but even in my field there are lots who won't work in the area I do.

itsgettingweird · 05/06/2025 21:12

Kibble19 · 05/06/2025 19:55

I think Venables has compromised his own identity by telling people who he is etc. I sincerely hope that if that happens again, he’s told to face up to it. He wouldn’t last a day. Shame.

He’d be given unlimited new identities though, because we couldn’t possibly let this freak face up to his own actions.

I’ve often wondered if criminals afforded a new identity identify themselves because they struggle with being a “no one”.

Everyone knows who JV is. No one knows who Billy Jones is. Billy Jones doesn’t have a past to talk about or get attention with. JV does. Or whether it’s an element of they aren’t rehabilitated and are proud of what they did. Like a badge of honour - but that’s too disturbing to consider any more deeply.

Cheffymcchef · 05/06/2025 21:12

Gloriia · 05/06/2025 21:05

Yes I know, it just seems such an inappropriate word. Is he remorseful is more fitting, has he being deterred from doing it again?
Only because he is being watched is my guess.

Venables was being watched and decided to commit the crime anyway.

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Kibble19 · 05/06/2025 21:12

ilovesooty · 05/06/2025 21:09

I don't think you need to justify yourself. If people don't think you're posting in good faith they can report.

I agree.

Nothing wrong with this thread at all.

ChessorBuckaroo · 05/06/2025 21:13

ArtTheClown · 05/06/2025 20:31

If Robert Thompson is truly rehabilited and remorseful, I'd imagine he lives in a hell of his own conscience.

Just reading the Wikipedia article, he showed zero remorse throughout.

Although I knew the case well, wish I hadn't looked at the article as I just learnt of another horrific act they committed.

Gloriia · 05/06/2025 21:14

Cheffymcchef · 05/06/2025 21:09

It’s not necessarily an adoption, they could’ve had a private surrogate where he used his new identity OR like his partner she knew his story and agreed to help anyway.

I believe the partner is a man? He is surely being monitored by some serivices so any private surrogacy should have been stopped. He's a child murderer.

Thisshirtisonfire · 05/06/2025 21:14

AndOnThatTree · 05/06/2025 21:04

John Venables hasn’t learned a thing from his past, his spent his entire life in and out of prison because he likes abusing and watching children be abused.
Robert Thompson.. I don’t know, it seems he will manage to move on and live a normal life, but like others have said if he has wiped this from his conscious then what does that say about him really, pretty fucked If you can rectify what you did to a baby.
And what do you mean by all three children were let down, where does justice for James come into this for you, do you think that the boys who murdered him served along enough sentence.
I do think we should have looked at the why In this case, John Venables parents along with Robert Thompsons should have been charged with neglect and abuse themselves, this was there doing in part. But John’s life since does suggest it is now just an evil streak, he should be locked up for life.
As for understanding this crime I could list millions of people before my sympathy reached either of these two.

They were children.
I do not think that you can serve justice by punishing children in a civilised society.
Obviously something went very wrong with these children but it is our societies job to be protecting them. All 3 were victims.
Yes I think the parents of the perpetrators should have been held to account more.
And as for john venables you could argue that the trauma from the incident abd the way it was handled made it nigh on impossible for him to become anything but what he has become.
And the issue is this is what large swathes of the public seem to want. Not actual rehabilitation but revenge. They want to be justified in their anger at some kids.. they want the outcome to be that the person is unchanged and spends their whole life in jail.
But these were children!! Were their names never released i honestly think there'd have been a much higher chance of genuinely rehabilitating both of them.
Which would have cost the taxpayer less money.. stopped some of the abuse that venables went on to be part of.. maybe made both of them become actual productive members of society as adults.
If it had been my child who'd be murdered that's the justice I would have wanted to see. Not some sad parade of another two kids lives ruined and people sat in their living rooms getting to express the worst parts of their nature. And I'd have wanted to know why it happened in the first place. What was going on with those kids.. what the fuck were their parents doing.. what were social services doing?? I'd want to know that lessons were learned and that nothing like that would happen again.

Cheffymcchef · 05/06/2025 21:14

ChessorBuckaroo · 05/06/2025 21:13

Just reading the Wikipedia article, he showed zero remorse throughout.

Although I knew the case well, wish I hadn't looked at the article as I just learnt of another horrific act they committed.

John cried throughout, Thompson showed no remorse. It’s interesting as John has been the one to reoffend over and over. I don’t think we can necessarily go by their initial responses.

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Cheffymcchef · 05/06/2025 21:15

Thisshirtisonfire · 05/06/2025 21:14

They were children.
I do not think that you can serve justice by punishing children in a civilised society.
Obviously something went very wrong with these children but it is our societies job to be protecting them. All 3 were victims.
Yes I think the parents of the perpetrators should have been held to account more.
And as for john venables you could argue that the trauma from the incident abd the way it was handled made it nigh on impossible for him to become anything but what he has become.
And the issue is this is what large swathes of the public seem to want. Not actual rehabilitation but revenge. They want to be justified in their anger at some kids.. they want the outcome to be that the person is unchanged and spends their whole life in jail.
But these were children!! Were their names never released i honestly think there'd have been a much higher chance of genuinely rehabilitating both of them.
Which would have cost the taxpayer less money.. stopped some of the abuse that venables went on to be part of.. maybe made both of them become actual productive members of society as adults.
If it had been my child who'd be murdered that's the justice I would have wanted to see. Not some sad parade of another two kids lives ruined and people sat in their living rooms getting to express the worst parts of their nature. And I'd have wanted to know why it happened in the first place. What was going on with those kids.. what the fuck were their parents doing.. what were social services doing?? I'd want to know that lessons were learned and that nothing like that would happen again.

I agree with all this, I always presume they would change their identities anyway as locals knew who the boys were and probably would’ve told people.

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JudgeJ · 05/06/2025 21:15

whackamole666 · 05/06/2025 19:07

If he's rehabilitated, released and no longer a danger he should be left alone.

I think that even after release they are subject being quietly watched, maybe for the rest of their lives.

CareerChange24 · 05/06/2025 21:16

Gloriia · 05/06/2025 21:07

Surely not with kids?! You'd have thought ss would not agree to an adoption with a child murderer?

We live in a liberal lovey society where apparently you can be ‘rehabilitated.’ Pp’s saying there’s much more dangerous criminals. They never even released the details of what they did to James. They tortured him. That evil never leaves you. It’s who you are

MarmaladeSandwichUnderMyHat · 05/06/2025 21:18

Who cares about those monsters? They both should never have seen the light of day again. 10 years is old enough to know exactly what they were doing. It was a premeditated attack. Abusive backgrounds are no excuse for the sheer depravity and cruelty inflicted on poor little James. Just awful that they get to live.

Awwlookatmybabyspider · 05/06/2025 21:18

Glitchymn1 · 05/06/2025 19:53

I don’t think they should see the light of day ever again. Unhinged.
Escalating from hurting animals, punching other children. They planned the abduction. They tortured that two year old over a period of several hours. They physically abused him, causing severe injuries. They then placed his body on a railway track.
Utter filth. All they’ve done is cause hurt and cost money. I know action what I’d recommend, but for the pg rated mn version both should have been chemically castrated and solitary confinement for life.

Edited to answer your question, no I don’t believe you can be that sick that you will ever truly be rehabilitated. His wife is insane.

Edited

It’s good to hear or rather read about someone not pussy footing around these evil monsters and I have no issues about calling them evil and wicked.
They knew exactly what they were doing. Not that it would be any less heart breaking for Denise but it’s not like it was a childish prank that went too far. They walked that poor little baby was it 3 miles while he was crying for his mummy and then did the most unimaginable wicked things to him.

AndyouWILLATONE · 05/06/2025 21:19

Hard agree @CareerChange24

Christwosheds · 05/06/2025 21:19

I have thought about this, if they had been young adults then it would be a no , but ten is so young, so I think of how little they were, but it was also such a terrible, terrible thing to do, it’s hard to imagine the cruelty and lack of empathy. Years ago near me a gang of boys were killing young birds, geese in particular. It was absolutely horrible and disgusting, but the shocking thing was that there was one obvious ringleader who seemed very dangerous, aged 13 or 14 , and the rest of the boys probably one on one would have been ok, but they got caught up in the behaviour. Similarly there was a gang rape in London in the 90s where young teens raped an adult woman, a tourist who they lured into the towpath. Again there was a ringleader, but I wonder what happened to the other boys; there is something about groups of young boys and men which can be so dangerous. That egging each other on to extremes. On the other hand I remember reading an article about a Norwegian village where a girl had been murdered by another child, a boy, and the way the village dealt with it. I wonder how it worked out long term as it was a totally different approach because he was a child, a similar age to Thomson and Venables. They believed in redemption and rehabilitation and everything was centred around that rather than punishment.
I do think some people are born without empathy though, or are damaged as small children and don’t develop empathy at all.

DeSoleil · 05/06/2025 21:20

From 2018 -
One of the killers of Merseyside toddler James Bulger has claimed he had a "better life" in prison as a result of the murder.
Robert Thompson said he had become "a better person" behind bars as he apologised for the killing in a statement to the parole board in 2001.
In the statement, obtained for a Channel 5 documentary, Thompson, now 36, said he was "desperately sorry".
The parole board said it was not able to comment on the statement.

The motive for the murder has always remained unclear and now, 25 years after the verdict, the Channel 5 documentary examined exactly what led two young boys to kill an innocent child.
It included details of Thompson's statement to the parole board, in which he said: "I do feel aware that I am now a better person and have had a better life and a better education than if I had not committed the murder.
"There is obviously an irony to this but it is part of my remorseful feelings as well."

Thompson told the Parole Board he had lied about his involvement after being overwhelmed by the public reaction to the crime.
He said: "I am deeply ashamed of what I did, and of having played a part in this horrible murder."
He also detailed his traumatic childhood before the crime, stating that at the time he was "completely out of control".
He added: "I was out of control because my life on the streets was better for me than my life at home."
In 2001, the pair were released - with new identities - under licence. This means they can be recalled at any time.
Venables was jailed in 2010 for having child abuse images on his computer.
He was also imprisoned earlier this year for the same offence.

……………..

We will never know if what he said is genuine or just what the parole board wanted to hear.

When I look at Denise’s face, I don’t think he should have been able to go on and lead a normal life after robbing James of his.

However, he was having a terrible upbringing and it makes you wonder if the parents should have had some form of accountability.

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