My family don’t have a lot of money. My uncle has never been able to work due to severe mental health issues, but had a lottery win some years back and bought a house outright with the winnings that he lives in.
He has no children, three siblings and 6 nieces/nephews.
His will states that everything is to be divided equally between the nieces/nephews. He relies upon his siblings a lot for help with managing finances etc, they keep an eye out for him as sometimes when his health his bad he can not function properly. Think toileting in the street, walking around town at 3am, he’s been bullied by local gangs etc. He can be hard work too but his siblings overall are there for him.
His will came up for some reason and my cousin mentioned “oh yeah but I spoke to my mum and they’re changing it”. I asked what does she mean by that and she said “yeah my mum said they’re changing his will so it’s split between the siblings instead”. I think they would be very capable of manipulating him to change his will and I don’t think this is ethical. I know as the niece I could be seen as biased of course because him not changing it but benefit me, but my thought is that his wishes should be respected and his siblings shouldn’t have the attached of “WE’RE changing it”. I haven’t brought this up with anyone but I worry that one day the aunty will have power of attorney etc, and it doesn’t seem right. Just looking for advice really.