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Things from your childhood you are still salty over?

307 replies

MyCheeryPearlTraybake · 25/05/2025 15:29

Not winning a running race

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rivalsbinge · 26/05/2025 07:06

I wasn’t allowed a fat Fanny’s t-shirt

Was told off for my FCUK T-shirt

i never won any art competition at school as mine were all far too good to have been really mine, even though my parents couldn’t draw!

i never got my art on Tony hart

i didn’t give up! Ive running a branding agency for 25+ years but it still poses me off that the (in my opinion at 7) crappy art used to get featured.

Btowngirl · 26/05/2025 07:12

Being made to do textiles at school instead of wood and metalwork like the boys. I’m only 33 😅

VivIsBlonde · 26/05/2025 07:13

My mother not letting me live with my dad when she kicked him out for some twat who she’s still with I was 10 at the time, now late 50’s
Still haven’t spoken to her since that day!!

heartsinvisiblefury · 26/05/2025 07:17

Being taken to the hairdressers to have my waist length hair cut into a page boy cut. I was 11 and when I arrived at school the following day the whole of the population of the school yard laughed. I didn’t want my hair cut. My mother did.

SinnerBoy · 26/05/2025 07:19

I'm 55 and have only found out about Mr. Frosty this past 24 hours... Last year, I found out about a chocolate dispenser toy, which you had to put money in, to get a choc.

Can you tell that we weren't allowed to watch ITV?

heartsinvisiblefury · 26/05/2025 07:20

Also after wanting a kitten for years, I finally got one. I loved her. Then a week later she went to ‘a farm’. I was 8 and heartbroken. I now as an adult have more cats than ever.

EleanorReally · 26/05/2025 07:22

never being taught to knit unlike my older ds

IShouldNotCoco · 26/05/2025 07:22

My mum throwing all my books away whilst I was at university.

DustyLee123 · 26/05/2025 07:22

Being made to run a race at sports day because someone else was off, and I was always crap at running, so I was last by a mile. Parents were laughing at me. I still remember not wanting to run, being made to run, and the shame.

holidayseeking · 26/05/2025 07:26

Never once won the egg competition around Easter. There were 3 categories - with help, overall and without help. Every year the winner of ‘without help’ was clearly done by the parents. Every year I did a great job, genuinely without help, and never even came close. I remember the final year of primary school, the actual winner was such low effort it didn’t deserve it at all! I freely admit I am still bitter!

Sorbetto · 26/05/2025 07:26

OnlyMabelInTheBuilding · 25/05/2025 15:47

same

Same here.

i now make icecream and sorbet as a serious hobby. Think about mr frosty it every time I watch my machine churning away. Mum said I’d use Mr frosty once and that it would be a pain to clean, thanks mum, still living the bloody trauma

oh and a keeper

Natsku · 26/05/2025 07:29

Secondary school, year 7 or year 8, can't remember which. While the boys did football in PE us girls had to do line dancing. I was outraged (although it was actually fun and I turned out to be quite good at it, that didn't diminish my outrage)

I have 4 older brothers, each of them, on their 21st birthday, got photo albums carefully made by my mum covering their childhoods. I was so looking forward to mine when I turned 21 but I didn't get it! It was many years later when my mum finally made one album for me, and then gave me the rest of the photos in a tin.

ThisOldThang · 26/05/2025 07:30

@Sorbetto I doubt there are many things as easy to clean as just rinsing a Mr Frosty under the tap.

Stygimoloch · 26/05/2025 07:32

My sister being given money to go to the corner shop to buy us both some chocolate. She bought me a DOUBLE DECKER! 😭

Booboobagins · 26/05/2025 07:37

Being the story telling tree and not a dancing girl in junior school play. I had to narrate the whole blooming play 🤣

blinkbonny · 26/05/2025 07:43

OurManyEnds · 25/05/2025 17:00

Not getting the English Prize, despite getting an A and the best exam results nationwide that year.

The prize went to a girl who got a C but who was an absolute Peter Perfect kissass type student.

Don’t teachers do this though because they feel that the high-achieving child has enough endorsement/attention for her abilities due to her high marks, whereas the lower achiever will get more intense pleasure and motivation from the recognition? I’m not saying I agree - a prize is a prize is a prize - but at least it might not have been as personal as otherwise!

Bonjovispyjamas · 26/05/2025 07:55

My sister getting the bike I wanted for Christmas, but being told they couldn't afford to get it for me. I got a much cheaper one.

CoCoJones26 · 26/05/2025 07:56

Not being allowed to go to brownies...took all my kids through beavers, cubs and scouts to make up for it!

TorroFerney · 26/05/2025 08:01

BingoBling · 25/05/2025 18:21

My Mum must have got the same memo as yours re long hair.
Even now she will tell me or my DD that our hair looks nice if its just been cut shortish!

Snap. Oh have you had your hair cut shorter this time. Nope, same length mum.

DiggyDoodad · 26/05/2025 08:03

casualcrispenjoyer · 25/05/2025 15:47

Parents never encouraging me, or making me, do any activities or hobbies.

Never had any chance to play a team sport properly, and I’m insanely jealous of anyone who who can play a musical instrument.

I always find it utterly bizarre when clearly a caring kind parent will make a thread about their child persisting with a hobby and people believing this is tantamount to child abuse.

We tried one music thing when I was about eleven and that was torpedoed after a wobbly week whilst I was still learning as apparently this was ungrateful as she had to drive all the way there. No reassurance, just relief from DM that she has a ‘reason’ for me not to do it any more.

It's not too late for you to learn an instrument now. It's good for the brain for it to be forced to learn new things. Why not give it a go?

CuteOrangeElephant · 26/05/2025 08:03

heartsinvisiblefury · 26/05/2025 07:17

Being taken to the hairdressers to have my waist length hair cut into a page boy cut. I was 11 and when I arrived at school the following day the whole of the population of the school yard laughed. I didn’t want my hair cut. My mother did.

I feel this one. For some reason my mother has decided that short hair looks better on me (she still comments on my hair these days!). When I was 10 she took me to the hairdressers to have my hair cut short, and because I have curls I looked like a sheep.

TorroFerney · 26/05/2025 08:03

oncemoreuntothebeachdearfriends · 25/05/2025 18:51

@MyCheeryPearlTraybake

What does "salty" mean to you ? I only use it in relation to food.

Irritated. Hacked off.

Shetlands · 26/05/2025 08:08

Not having piano lessons that I was desperate for.
Ditto ballet & tap lessons.
Not having any books in the house.
Not being a member of the children's library.
Not being allowed long hair.
Being smacked.
Being afraid of my volatile, verbally abusive father.
Living within my parents' toxic, dysfunctional relationship.

piscofrisco · 26/05/2025 08:13

Not being given proper dental treatment. I’ve got a huge gap in my two front teeth as a result that would now be painful and very costly to fix and its knocked my confidence my whole life. My mum wouldn’t take me to the dentist because she is scared of the dentist.

BeardofHagrid · 26/05/2025 08:14

Mine is that no one ever had a chat with me about shaving. It was only because my friend helped me to buy a razor that I knew to shave my legs.