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How often do you get debilitating flu?

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CharlotteRumpling · 23/05/2025 22:32

I am hardly ever ill, but once a year or so I get a terrible bout of flu. Got it now and can barely get out of bed. ( have had my flu jab).

DH has flu several times a year but not severe attacks. Can usually keep going but just WFH.

He's always quite taken aback by how ill I get quite quickly.

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AutisticAndMore · 03/12/2025 18:23

dynamiccactus · 03/12/2025 17:50

NHS Scotland says

The difference between flu and a cold
It can sometimes be difficult to tell if you have flu or a cold.
Flu symptoms:

  • come on quickly
  • usually include fever and aching muscles
  • are more severe
Cold symptoms:
  • come on gradually
  • mainly affect your nose and throat
  • are fairly mild, so you can still get around and are usually well enough to go to work

That does not mean that it cannot be mild or asymptomatic. It absolutely can be.

Mild flu symptoms is even mentioned. by one of their health boards here because they are aware that mild symptoms could potentially be flu.

How often do you get debilitating flu?
Saz12 · 03/12/2025 18:55

I've potentially had flu twice (I think!). Neither time was I completely incapacitated for days - quick onset, fever, aches, headache - so perhaps another virus.
I have had colds that were too bad to go to work, and pneumonia.

frozendaisy · 03/12/2025 18:57

Never since I make sure I have the flu jab each year.

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FastFood · 03/12/2025 19:01

I'm 46 and I think I had the flu 4 times. Last time last year, I recovered pretty quickly, but was incapacitated for 5 straight days, so I got the jab this year, I live alone, I'm naturally quite underweight so I can't have another episode of not being able to look after myself and eat for 5-6 days again.

Before that I was in my 20s and before that I was a child, so it didn't hit as bad.

Wbeezer · 03/12/2025 19:04

Once, over Christmas many years ago, the whole family came down with it except bouncy excited 5 year old DS3. The older kids couldn’t even be bothered to open their presents and we didn’t eat Xmas dinner until more than a week later. It was hellish, I pay for a jab at the chemist now.

RampantIvy · 03/12/2025 19:06

I'm 67 and have had it just once in my life. I must have been 11 or 12.

IsntItDarkOut · 03/12/2025 19:10

I’ve had it twice and I’m in my 50s.
The worst was over the millennium. We were very bad that year, even up to New Year’s Eve DH was talking about driving to his parents. I cried and then he agreed we wouldn’t make it.

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