I stated a new job a few months ago and I sometimes work alone with my supervisor. He seemed like a really nice guy at first, we got on and had a laugh. He’s said a few things now that has made me feel really uncomfortable. If it matters, I’m 27 and he’s late 40s/early 50s.
Yesterday for example, we were talking about holidays and he told me that when he was younger he went away and brought a girl back to his room. He said (his words) “I brought her back to the hotel, we had sex, I slipped it out and fell straight asleep, I think she was annoyed with me”
Then a couple of weeks ago he told me a friend of his who claimed to be straight had sex with another man but his friend didn’t think it was gay because he was “on top” He asked me what I thought. I mumbled something along the lines of “I don’t know only he’ll know I guess” to which he replied “well if it were me I wouldn’t be able to get hard”
There has been a few other things he’s said over the past few months too.
I know I should have said something by now and I’m annoyed with myself that I’ve put up with it but I suffer with anxiety which makes things difficult for me to be forward and straight up
I really liked my new job but now I’m not sure