Meet the Other Phone. Child-safe in minutes.

Meet the Other Phone.
Child-safe in minutes.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

Chat

Join the discussion and chat with other Mumsnetters about everyday life, relationships and parenting.

Could my dd be dyslexic?

12 replies

Perhapsdyslexia · 22/05/2025 15:32

Dd is 4 and seems totally confused by reading and writing (can’t do it at all). Says the wrong sounds for letters and cannot write any letters at all? I hadn’t even considered dyslexia as she already has a diagnosis of ASD and I thought it was due to that but should I consider that she is also dyslexic ?

OP posts:
RubberDuckyURtheone · 22/05/2025 15:37

Of course it's possible but far too early to assess and what you're describing is not unusual for a four year old - important to remember that writing and reading are taught skills, not natural developmental stages, and children get there at different ages and in different ways. The best thing to do is to keep encouraging and enriching and making words and stories fun and engaging. Work on rhyme and rhythm through nursery rhymes and songs and rhyming books like Julia Donaldson, don't fret yet about dyslexia, there is plenty of time for her to develop her literacy skills.

Perhapsdyslexia · 22/05/2025 15:40

RubberDuckyURtheone · 22/05/2025 15:37

Of course it's possible but far too early to assess and what you're describing is not unusual for a four year old - important to remember that writing and reading are taught skills, not natural developmental stages, and children get there at different ages and in different ways. The best thing to do is to keep encouraging and enriching and making words and stories fun and engaging. Work on rhyme and rhythm through nursery rhymes and songs and rhyming books like Julia Donaldson, don't fret yet about dyslexia, there is plenty of time for her to develop her literacy skills.

Yes hopefully she will improve she is just really struggling and I was worried

OP posts:
FromNow · 22/05/2025 15:44

Dyslexia is diagnosed in our area when significant difficulties persist despite appropriate learning opportunities. Ideally a child would be around eight years old before they’re seen as then they have had time to experience the teaching and learning.

Interested in this thread?

Then you might like threads about these subjects:

CatHairEveryWhereNow · 22/05/2025 15:45

To early to say.

https://www.soundfoundations.co.uk/product/bear-necessities-book-a1/

^^ this could help if you have time and money - best tip for blending for one of mine was shouting the sounds out.
More fun and free

Teach your monster how to read

I would say get her hearing checked - DS had intermittent glue ear which didn't help - and possibly her eyes just to rule out any thing there.

Had the teacher said anything - about extra help of testing in school?

Bear Necessities Book A1 - Sound Foundations Books

ISBN 9781905174249 Bear Necessities is designed for children who need extra support with the basics of learning to read; children who are not learning letter-sound correspondences and blending in whole-class teaching. Look inside Bear Necessities Boo...

https://www.soundfoundations.co.uk/product/bear-necessities-book-a1/

Perhapsdyslexia · 22/05/2025 15:49

CatHairEveryWhereNow · 22/05/2025 15:45

To early to say.

https://www.soundfoundations.co.uk/product/bear-necessities-book-a1/

^^ this could help if you have time and money - best tip for blending for one of mine was shouting the sounds out.
More fun and free

Teach your monster how to read

I would say get her hearing checked - DS had intermittent glue ear which didn't help - and possibly her eyes just to rule out any thing there.

Had the teacher said anything - about extra help of testing in school?

Her hearing is fine we had it checked at the initial stage of her ASD assessment. She is having a lot of support at school but still cannot manage to grasp any of the learning at all.

OP posts:
Perhapsdyslexia · 22/05/2025 15:49

FromNow · 22/05/2025 15:44

Dyslexia is diagnosed in our area when significant difficulties persist despite appropriate learning opportunities. Ideally a child would be around eight years old before they’re seen as then they have had time to experience the teaching and learning.

I will wait and see then I just wasn’t sure if it was something I needed to mention now in case help needed to start early

OP posts:
MiddleAgedDread · 22/05/2025 15:51

She's only 4, what are you trying to get her to do or is this coming from school?

Perhapsdyslexia · 22/05/2025 15:59

MiddleAgedDread · 22/05/2025 15:51

She's only 4, what are you trying to get her to do or is this coming from school?

She just can’t manage to learn any of the phonics, can’t read, can’t write anything at all . School have told us she is significantly behind in all areas and I just thought today perhaps she is dyslexic ? At home she can’t seem to concentrate even if we read to her

OP posts:
CatHairEveryWhereNow · 22/05/2025 16:02

Her hearing is fine we had it checked at the initial stage of her ASD assessment. She is having a lot of support at school but still cannot manage to grasp any of the learning at all.

Well that one thing ruled out.

All mine struggled in early years with reading and writing. I'm diagonsed dsylexic and we always thought eldest especially has dyslexia like me - first school wouldn't test till 7 then 8 then wavered every time for years- next school thought it likely didn't want to pay for testing - and third secondary did screen testing she was boarderline on so wouldn't proceed.

We couldn't afford private testing - and she was finally fully properly tested by someone qualified at uni and yep she is very much dsylexic.

So I would talk to the school about when they test - you may be pushing at an open door or you may get nowhere for years as we did - but mostly 7 earliest you'll get a formal diagnosis.

peanutForever · 22/05/2025 16:06

Hiya, can i ask how your dd is generally?/trying to see if its a general global development delay - how is her speech?

I would talk to the school so its on record youve made it known and also is the learning environment suited to her needs? is she a gestalt learner?

Perhapsdyslexia · 22/05/2025 16:24

peanutForever · 22/05/2025 16:06

Hiya, can i ask how your dd is generally?/trying to see if its a general global development delay - how is her speech?

I would talk to the school so its on record youve made it known and also is the learning environment suited to her needs? is she a gestalt learner?

At home her speech is good, she was non verbal til 2.5 then had a language explosion. She struggles to talk at school though she has speech therapy as will say nothing or just one word responses if really encouraged

OP posts:
Dreichweather · 22/05/2025 16:26

If she is dysregulated then she won’t be learning? How well are school doing at make appropriate adjustments for her?

New posts on this thread. Refresh page
Swipe left for the next trending thread