Partner and has enough

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Every time he gets angry which is not a rare thing he tells me to fuck off and die. I’ve had enough I really have, but we also have a good time, a good relationship and have kids. He doesn’t hit me, he is hands on dad, but when he is angry he is just an awful person. I could never say that to someone ever. I’ve heard my son say it to me, and I wish I could stop my partner saying this. I’ve told him if he is angry please don’t say that , just a fuck off is enough, but to tell someone to die is horrible. I’m so fed up with him but everything else can be good so not sure what to do .

That's awful- the best thing you can do for you and your kids is leave. You don't want them growing up with that kind of example of how to behave when they are angry/for them to think it's acceptable.

That’s a vile thing to say to anyone, especially someone you’re supposed to love. What a horrible example to set to your children. Draw a line and show them it’s not acceptable to speak to someone that way. Also “he doesn’t hit me” is an extremely low bar. I’d be questioning this relationship and weighing my options.

You don’t have a good relationship and the abuse your children are experiencing is awful. He is not a good father.
Can you leave?

Even telling someone to f off repeatedly is emotional abuse but to tell them to die that's sickening heartless and quite narcissistic.domestic violence doesn't need to be physical to have an impact on someone emotional abuse can be just a devastating and you deserve better to be on the receiving end of someone's anger and frustration which you have done absolutely nothing to deserve

You don't have a good relationship. You just wait for the next time he decides to verbally abuse you and slowly wear away who you are. He's horrible.

I'm sorry OP, you don't have a good relationship. If my husband ever said that to me once he would be out. It's completely unacceptable/disrespectful.