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OneFancyCritic · 20/05/2025 16:05

Hello Mum's,
My hubby decided to not wear his wedding ring after latest row few days ago. We're in "limited" talking terms. It's like We're more quiet than talking/chatting. He accused me of being suspicious but for me I won't be suspicious if I don't need to. He became "very fond" of my Uncle's adopted daughter and his wife. He thought I blocked them in fb and messenger but it was my Uncle's wife who blocked us first. My hubby didn't know that she blocked us and instead got angry of me. He discussed plans to take the wife and the adopted daughter here in UK, not taking into consideration what would my Uncle think.
We patched things up after the row but he seemed very cold to me. He is still not wearing g the wedding ring. He said, he put it in the safe.
I need advice please

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mumofoneAlonebutokay · 20/05/2025 16:07

Leave the bastard x

TaupeRaven · 20/05/2025 16:09

The complicated family backstory - which I don't think I quite understand (how fond is fond?!) - why has he taken his ring off? Is it some sort of punishment? I'd be more worried about why he's pulled this weird power play than the absence of the ring. I often don't wear mine purely because I sometimes forget to put it on, and it means nothing other than I'm forgetful. However if he always wears it and has specifically removed it to show you how annoyed he is, that's a different story

OneFancyCritic · 20/05/2025 16:31

He always accused me of being suspicious but for me it is a "concern" like when he's not come home yet & he hasn't told me. When we had this row, he mentioned that he will torture me emotionally. Now, I'm acting like I'm not affected. We're still cold at each other. Me not chatting with him as I don't know what will be the reaction I'll get.
My Uncle's wife is thick & lazy & doesn't know how to cook. It hurts me when I think that he got angry cos I blocked them in messenger and fb using his account. I didn't blocked them at all. I'm a professional with 3 days work per week and I'm also a good wife to him. I'm domesticated. Should I divorce him?

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