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Grad job in Chichester - where to live?

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Delphigirl · 18/05/2025 10:53

Bit of an odd one this and I don’t know Sussex at all so would appreciate any thoughts.

DS has 3.5 month internship which may turn into grad job. Hydrographic survey. That means 4 weeks on ship, 4 weeks on holiday for c. 6 mths a year, remaining 6mths of year in office.
Office is in Chichester.

He will be 22 rising 23 on graduation. Loves the sea, sailing, diving, nature, hiking, but also DJs (house, electronic) (gets £250 a night for that in Devon) and plays drums. Loves clubbing. Will need to make whole new social life as has no connection there. Assume earning quite nicely - £30k basic but quite a lot of extra arising from time at sea. Say £40k.

Where would he live? Has Chi got stuff to interest a young grad, will he make friends there or will he spend all his three months off for half the year wishing he was living somewhere more lively? Should he pay the very high rents to live in Brighton/Hove for the youthful community and clubbing, even though he will not be there at all for 3 months a year? Would daily commuting to Chichester for 6 months a year from Brighton:Hove be doable - and if so by train or by car?

is there another nice option to commute from that maybe cheaper and faster? What is Worthing like for a 20 something? Or even Southsea/old Portsmouth?

Finally he could live cheaply lodging in his siblings flat in Balham but that looks pretty impossible for daily commute to Chi - is that right? might that work if he is only needed say 3 days/week in the office?

as I say any thoughts much appreciated!

OP posts:
seasidedweller88 · 15/08/2025 15:33

I can comment well having lived all over London and Brighton too. Can confirm Worthing is a great place if you want:
-A lovely quiet beach
-Beautiful countryside and walking nearby
-Friendly safe community, quite diverse and queer friendly
-Very good cafes restaurants pubs and bars (both traditional and also natural wines bars and small plates etc, craft breweries for a bit of pizazz)
-Good schools
-Leafy parks
-Decent town centre with walkable shops
-Three train stations(!) and an easy enough commute straight to Victoria/East Croydon/Clapham, and Brighton of course
-Decent parking (especially compared to Brighton)
-And affordable homes! I bought my three bedroom house in a good area for only 30k more than my one bedroom flat in Brighton-For us it's been a no brainer and we love it, we're in our 30s and lots of our friends are following suit.
-Best areas: Check it out in person. Personally we're near the station on a leafy nice street, Tarring (West) is also desirable. But the best way to ascertain is to go and walk around.

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