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Now it’s warming up, it’s time for seasonally moan about secondary school uniforms

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Soubriquet · 29/04/2025 17:06

Whhhhhhhy?! Why must they have a thick ass blazer that traps in all the smells of puberty? Why can they only take it off if they ask for permission?!

They know they are hot! They shouldn’t have to say it.

Christ. What’s wrong with a nice shirt and jumper that students can remove when needed and not these thick stuffy blazers.

Schools like to lecture and say it prepares you for the working world, but how many jobs actually require a worker to wear a blazer? Plus, as an adult you don’t need permission to take it off!

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brexel · 01/05/2025 18:46

Pleaseshutthefuckup · 29/04/2025 18:06

I will never understand the logic behind forcing kids to wear a fucking 3 piece suit to school. And then issuing a detention for not wearing the full 3 piece suit.

The principle of a uniform, yes, I understand that. But this nonsense has gone too far.

What kids do you know wear a waistcoat?

Sassybooklover · 01/05/2025 18:53

My son's blazer isn't particularly thick, but with the tie, it makes him hot. His secondary school allow smart tailored shorts that must be knee length, in the summer. To be honest only the Year 7's bother with shorts, the rest of the year groups are far too old for shorts, as it's seen as a primary school item!! His school do allow them to take the blazer off, in very hot weather, but I think the forecast has to be hot weather for a week or more, before it's allowed!

Roselilly36 · 01/05/2025 18:57

It’s totally ridiculous, my two DS’ had to wear blazer, shirt and tie, long trousers. The girls were better off, with blazer, blouse & kilt.

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maythefirce · 01/05/2025 18:57

My son’s school has a simple navy blazer (not branded) that can be taken off (and put on back of chair or a hook in the classroom) when seated. works great, especially since the kids tend to have half a pencil case in the pockets - wearing it makes sure nothing falls out of pockets.
we bought a washable one from m&s, and it still looks great after 5 or 6 washes.

UnctuousUnicorns · 01/05/2025 19:00

Tesseracter · 01/05/2025 18:32

I live near one of the ‘top’ public schools, where the boys wear suits. It was noticeable last year in hot weather that they were clearly being allowed to go without ties and their jackets. Meanwhile the pupils from the local comprehensives were looking hot and uncomfortable in blazers and ties.

Not a public school but my school was private, selective, waiting list etc. No ties worn in summer and sweaters/cardigans could be removed at will.

minnienono · 01/05/2025 19:01

My dd2’s upper school had no uniform, that created its own set of problems, brands of course then policing it in summer to ensure decency - seeing bum cheeks from shorts or skirts (or worse) was a real problem, and cropped tops which officially weren’t allowed either but the girls tried! The boys rarely wore shorts despite being allowed to

farmergirl15 · 01/05/2025 19:15

My sons school messaged on Sunday to say blazers would not be required this week, many have still worn them tho

Pleaseshutthefuckup · 01/05/2025 19:20

brexel · 01/05/2025 18:46

What kids do you know wear a waistcoat?

Excellent point 🤦😆. I forgot about the essential waistcoat as per definition.

You understand my intent. Shirt, jumper and blazer is the current requirement. It's incredibly uncomfortable and heavy and bulky. It seems highly counterproductive.

Iloveeverycat · 01/05/2025 19:25

Not to do with hot weather. But a school near me is banning wearing jumpers between April and October. If they don't remove them they will be put in isolation for the day or not go to prom.

Pleaseshutthefuckup · 01/05/2025 19:34

Iloveeverycat · 01/05/2025 19:25

Not to do with hot weather. But a school near me is banning wearing jumpers between April and October. If they don't remove them they will be put in isolation for the day or not go to prom.

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Any logical explanation?? 🤷

twistyizzy · 01/05/2025 19:34

DDs independent school has jumpers + wool blazers but in warm weather they can have short sleeve shirt, no tie + blazer and jumper off. Common sense should prevail

BruisedNeckMeat · 01/05/2025 19:35

This thread makes me glad we chose a school with no uniform. My boys went in wearing shorts and t-shirts today and came out of school cool and comfortable.

Iloveeverycat · 01/05/2025 20:00

Pleaseshutthefuckup · 01/05/2025 19:34

Any logical explanation?? 🤷

Only this
"Every parent wants the school they select for their children to have a safe and disciplined approach, and this is reflected in how a uniform is worn."

Soubriquet · 01/05/2025 20:34

Iloveeverycat · 01/05/2025 19:25

Not to do with hot weather. But a school near me is banning wearing jumpers between April and October. If they don't remove them they will be put in isolation for the day or not go to prom.

Edited

That’s just….it doesn’t make sense!! What reason is this for? Just seems like an excuse to power play

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Iloveeverycat · 01/05/2025 20:52

Soubriquet · 01/05/2025 20:34

That’s just….it doesn’t make sense!! What reason is this for? Just seems like an excuse to power play

See above post

Paintandpots · 01/05/2025 23:12

Idratherbepaddleboarding · 01/05/2025 17:03

Is that not the same in a skirt or dress though? And realistically, how often do people actually fall over?

True. To be honest i come from a culture and background where you wouldn't have bare legs out to be honest, my parents are from Pakistan and schools there the children wear shalwar kameez which is the national dress, it is well suited to the hot climate because they are loose and made from cotton.
Summer uniform should be made from cotton. Have a slight looser fit so that air can circulate. So yes to dresses.

I speak from a practical point of view. Little children fall over a fair bit. Well at least 1-4 year olds do. No experianced with 5 years yet. But time will tell i think?

JackieDaytonaLuckyBrews · 01/05/2025 23:45

DS left secondary school last year, and thankfully they were incredibly sensible and allowed all pupils to attend in their PE kit on hot days.
DD went to a different secondary two years before who were absolutely rigid to the point of stupidity when it came to uniform. Hottest days of the year and full uniform still required. One girl sent home for wearing a coloured hairband (not a scrunchie, a bloody elastic) once. It was one of the reasons amongst many that I didn't send DS there as well.

maythefirce · 02/05/2025 17:54

@Paintandpots cotton school
yniform exists (apart from branded stuff), but most people buy polyester as they can’t be asked to iron…
mine wear cotton trousers snd shirts, and are fine in the heat.

Trish10000t · 06/05/2025 15:17

Pleaseshutthefuckup · 01/05/2025 19:20

Excellent point 🤦😆. I forgot about the essential waistcoat as per definition.

You understand my intent. Shirt, jumper and blazer is the current requirement. It's incredibly uncomfortable and heavy and bulky. It seems highly counterproductive.

they have to wear a jumper AND blazer??

OurManyEnds · 06/05/2025 15:18

Threads like this always make me so glad I’m in Scotland - I’ve never known any school up here to be particularly strict on uniform, although that’s obviously just my own experience.

Its hot today and my son is wearing black Nike shorts, for example.

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