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Poo in shared toilet: do you comment?

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PooInTheLoo · 23/04/2025 13:49

If you’ve done a poo in a shared toilet (at work, for example), and there’s someone queuing, would you say anything to them before they go into the stall you’ve just left (if there’s an odour)?

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PooInTheLoo · 23/04/2025 18:43

I reckon I was A bit surprised when the other woman said “it doesn’t smell very nice in there,” as she owned up to it. But also, it’s a loo, it’s not supposed to smell nice? There is much shame and embarrassment around poo but why, we all do it…

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MissScarletInTheBallroom · 23/04/2025 18:45

PooInTheLoo · 23/04/2025 18:43

I reckon I was A bit surprised when the other woman said “it doesn’t smell very nice in there,” as she owned up to it. But also, it’s a loo, it’s not supposed to smell nice? There is much shame and embarrassment around poo but why, we all do it…

Was she owning up to it? She could have been trying to imply that it already didn't smell very nice when she went in there.

QueefQueen80s · 23/04/2025 18:48

SoManyTeeth · 23/04/2025 18:39

Yeah, it's not usual polite conversation. I'm not saying that the subject of toilet smells isn't awkward, only that talking about whether or not the average healthy person can hold their shit till they get home is kind of a strange thing to bring up. There are lots of unpleasant and pointless things most people can do but don't need to. That includes holding in your shit when facilities are provided specifically for the purpose of getting rid of it.

Anyway, I just didn't understand what you meant, sorry about that.

Most people I know don’t poo in public and will wait until they get home.
I would if I was gonna shit myself, when you gotta go you gotta go! But always been able to hold it. Tbh my brain usually only tells me I need one once I walk through the door

AprilBunny · 23/04/2025 18:48

Blobbitymacblob · 23/04/2025 14:02

The smell only lingers if there are fragments of poo left behind. A quick swipe of the brush sorts that out.

I have definitely done some smell lingerers that didn't involve poo fragments.

HelenWheels · 23/04/2025 18:49

OchonAgusOchonOh · 23/04/2025 14:08

Not necessarily. You can still get lingering smells once the toilet is cleaned. It dissipates quickly enough usually but if someone goes in straight afterwards they can get a blast.

there are no loo brushes at my work loo

HelenWheels · 23/04/2025 18:49

i did plan to take some VI Poo in my handbag, but save that, and the rest, for home

arcticpandas · 23/04/2025 18:51

If I know the person well i'd say "wouldn't go in there for a while mate". If not I'd say nothing. I don't leave a mess obviously.

SoManyTeeth · 23/04/2025 19:08

QueefQueen80s · 23/04/2025 18:48

Most people I know don’t poo in public and will wait until they get home.
I would if I was gonna shit myself, when you gotta go you gotta go! But always been able to hold it. Tbh my brain usually only tells me I need one once I walk through the door

That's up to them. But it's still perfectly acceptable for others to choose to use a toilet for what it's for instead of holding it, and it still seems weird to me to bring up the topic of whether or not most people can choose not to. Unless the implication is that they should choose to hold their shit, lest the designated shitting room smell briefly of shit.

pimplebum · 23/04/2025 19:15

I do a elaborate routine because I poo every morning, I flush ( twice if necessary) check bowl , waft door ( only two cubicles and no one else around ) check window is open and spray
if it’s a lingering stinker I pump hand gel down the loo as I flush to make lots of fragrant bubbles

waft door some more if necessary

I know it’s excessive but I work I v small unit and with some fussy buggers so never want to be the poo troll

pimplebum · 23/04/2025 19:50

Not pooing in public loos is bizarre and only the habits of the truly weird.

Talkwhilstyouwalk · 23/04/2025 22:01

Could have been the person before you if there's a queue, just pretend to yourself that that is the case and then you can walk back out confidently to face the world. Another tip is to flush immediately after pooing and then wipe and flush again.....that's what I do to prevent myself from gagging when wiping my children's bums!

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