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Can a workman insist I pay him in cash?

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AlleyRose · 21/04/2025 18:04

Having a new bathroom fitted. 2k deposit, 2k at start of job, 2k half way through all by bank transfer. He’s asked for the final 2k (when I’m happy and it’s all finished) in cash.

I don’t want to have to visit the ATM machine 8 times and I don’t want to have to travel to my nearest bank to then have to walk back to my car with £2k in cash in my handbag.

Can I refuse and just do bank transfer for final payment?

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Badbadbunny · 21/04/2025 18:50

canthavethatonethen · 21/04/2025 18:19

It makes me wonder whether he will be putting the bank transfer payments through his books but not the cash one.

Do you have a full paper trail and an invoice for the full amount?

Yup, that's common practice for their tax & VAT avoidance. Put some of the price through the books and "pocket" the rest. "Something" has gone through the books in case of HMRC enquiry, and some has gone straight into his pocket, thus evading tax, NIC, VAT, etc.

RosesAndHellebores · 21/04/2025 18:52

AlleyRose · 21/04/2025 18:47

I think being mugged and losing £2k and having zero recourse is a massive amount to be honest!!

My nearest two towns are pretty grim, really rough. I can’t even tell you the last time I went. I genuinely don’t want to walk from a bank to the car park carrying £2k. If I got mugged I don’t think the plumber is going to let me off!

Also, he’s driving about in a brand new £50k pick up truck, so don’t think his cash flow is too bad!

That's why I suggested you arrange to meet him at the bank.

Badbadbunny · 21/04/2025 18:52

SeaDragon17 · 21/04/2025 18:33

I would refuse. If you pay by cash ensure you get a full receipt from him with his business name and the invoice reference on it. Otherwise if you have issues in the future and there’s “no record” of you paying the final instalment you’ll be screwed.

Nail on the head. If he's happy to be dishonest with HMRC, then he'll be happy to be dishonest with customers.

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AlleyRose · 21/04/2025 18:53

Unijourney · 21/04/2025 18:42

How did he quote? Was the total including VAT?

Sometimes a builder wiil work with other trades, such as an electrician who only wants cash, because its a quick job and they want payment on the day rather than wait for the builder to get paid. On a bathroom job, there could be at least 4 trades, plumber, tiler, electrician, decorator and plasterer who are only working for a short period of time.

If the builder does a good job and you might want to use him again then sort out cash as it helps him pay his supply chain. Arrange it with your bank so you visit once.

This is a good point. Electrician and plasterer have already done their bit and I’ve paid 6 out of the 8k. Why can’t he pay them out of that? Don’t mean that in an arsey way, just don’t understand why he would make them wait for
me to pay next week in cash?

I don’t think he’s VAT registered to be honest. I suspect he doesn’t earn enough. But he will have to pay tax on his earnings so I’m wondering if he just prefers to pay his sub contractors in cash?

Invoice doesn’t mention VAT, just the total amount.

(He was recommended by a friend who used him who was really pleased with his work and he uploads a lot of photos onto his Facebook page so he’s not a cowboy). The work he’s done so far is really good to be fair.

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AlleyRose · 21/04/2025 18:54

I think I agree with you @SeaDragon17 and @Badbadbunny

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WimpoleHat · 21/04/2025 18:54

Say you’re not sure it’s okay. He will assure you that it is. Then say “Oh - just let me check with my DH/mum/dad/brother/sister (whoever is most plausible) that it’s okay. They’re pretty senior in HMRC and know all about it.” He’ll take a bank transfer…..

Firenzeflower · 21/04/2025 18:56

I always check. I had a builder once who wanted cash and I hated it. It’s such a pain and it means they’re not paying tax.

infuriating.

I’d just refuse.

ilovemydogandmrobama2 · 21/04/2025 18:58

One the builders (roofer) insisted on cash - had to explain to the bank why I wanted cash, although thinking about it now, maybe it was flagged up under money laundering rules?

There were problems a couple of years later with the roof and regret giving him cash.

ChompinCrocodiles · 21/04/2025 19:00

WimpoleHat · 21/04/2025 18:54

Say you’re not sure it’s okay. He will assure you that it is. Then say “Oh - just let me check with my DH/mum/dad/brother/sister (whoever is most plausible) that it’s okay. They’re pretty senior in HMRC and know all about it.” He’ll take a bank transfer…..

Don't be ridiculous.

Unless he's 12 and easily scared, this won't have any effect other than to make you look like a moron.

abracadabra1980 · 21/04/2025 19:01

I'd just tell him you don't have easy access to cash so "I'll have to ping you a bank transfer". Leave it at that. There is no reason why anyone in his supply chain needs to be paid in cash.

B1indEye · 21/04/2025 19:05

ilovemydogandmrobama2 · 21/04/2025 18:58

One the builders (roofer) insisted on cash - had to explain to the bank why I wanted cash, although thinking about it now, maybe it was flagged up under money laundering rules?

There were problems a couple of years later with the roof and regret giving him cash.

Actually paying someone in cash would be the opposite of money laundering wouldnt it? They ask questions to make sure you aren't being scammed

B1indEye · 21/04/2025 19:07

AlleyRose · 21/04/2025 18:53

This is a good point. Electrician and plasterer have already done their bit and I’ve paid 6 out of the 8k. Why can’t he pay them out of that? Don’t mean that in an arsey way, just don’t understand why he would make them wait for
me to pay next week in cash?

I don’t think he’s VAT registered to be honest. I suspect he doesn’t earn enough. But he will have to pay tax on his earnings so I’m wondering if he just prefers to pay his sub contractors in cash?

Invoice doesn’t mention VAT, just the total amount.

(He was recommended by a friend who used him who was really pleased with his work and he uploads a lot of photos onto his Facebook page so he’s not a cowboy). The work he’s done so far is really good to be fair.

Was the invoice hand written or from some kind of computerised system?
Ask him if he'll sign and date it to confirm you've paid in full

Moveoverdarlin · 21/04/2025 19:10

We had a kitchen done recently and I was happy to pay in cash. Every time I went to the supermarket I got £250 out. Husband did the same. Got cash back every time I did a shop too. It wasn’t a problem and I was keen to keep the fitter onside. If he’s happy, he’ll likely do a better job and if he doesn’t pay tax on that last 2k it doesn’t bother me.

Motherknowsrest · 21/04/2025 19:11

If it's just the last payment it's because he's fed up being messed about once a job is over.

Whyisitsobloodycold · 21/04/2025 19:13

Glitchymn1 · 21/04/2025 18:14

I wouldn’t pay upfront, at least ensure that delivery comes to you. Neighbour paid £20k upfront, builder had a mental health episode and nothing has been done, no materials and they’ve had to remortgage. It was only patio slabs and stones!

Who on earth pays 20k upfront?!

mind boggles, people can’t seriously be this soft.

Moveoverdarlin · 21/04/2025 19:14

WimpoleHat · 21/04/2025 18:54

Say you’re not sure it’s okay. He will assure you that it is. Then say “Oh - just let me check with my DH/mum/dad/brother/sister (whoever is most plausible) that it’s okay. They’re pretty senior in HMRC and know all about it.” He’ll take a bank transfer…..

Christ don’t say this, you’ll look like a right twat. It’ll piss him off and why would you want someone who is pissed off working in your home for the next few weeks. Just get the cash out! If you go four times and so does your DH it’s not a massive effort is it?

CozyCoupe · 21/04/2025 19:17

Honestly if he's a decent tradesman I'd just do it, decent trades are worth their weight in gold.

chattyness · 21/04/2025 19:22

Just say that feels unsafe for you and so you're doing bank transfer instead, stand firm, he's working for you not the other way around.

Mindymomo · 21/04/2025 19:22

DH is a retired bathroom installer, many clients wanted to pay cash, mainly because their relatives weren’t happy with them spending their expected inheritance, he would often drive them to banks to escort them in and out. Then the next day I would take cash to deposit in bank, I don’t know what I would do now as we have no local banks left. I’m sure if you tell tradesman that it’s a problem getting cash out, then it will be ok. We had building work done and paid some cash, both my DH and I took out money each day, our local Co-op and Tesco have free cash points.

MrsRedTop · 21/04/2025 19:23

If he does a poor job and you have to take him to the small claims court to get your money back, you won’t be able to claim any cash you gave him. Also be wary of tradespeople who want you to send bank transfers to their personal bank accounts instead of a business account. Please be aware that you won’t get your money back via your bank if he does a poor job. It’ll get classed as a civil dispute and you’d need to take him to court, so I’d reconsider paying him more than half before the job is completed to your satisfaction.

Badbadbunny · 21/04/2025 19:25

B1indEye · 21/04/2025 19:05

Actually paying someone in cash would be the opposite of money laundering wouldnt it? They ask questions to make sure you aren't being scammed

Tax evasion IS money laundering, i.e. proceeds of crime, benefitting from a crime, etc.

Badbadbunny · 21/04/2025 19:26

Motherknowsrest · 21/04/2025 19:11

If it's just the last payment it's because he's fed up being messed about once a job is over.

Then he'll be happy with a bank transfer on the last day once it's all properly finished!

Badbadbunny · 21/04/2025 19:28

Moveoverdarlin · 21/04/2025 19:10

We had a kitchen done recently and I was happy to pay in cash. Every time I went to the supermarket I got £250 out. Husband did the same. Got cash back every time I did a shop too. It wasn’t a problem and I was keen to keep the fitter onside. If he’s happy, he’ll likely do a better job and if he doesn’t pay tax on that last 2k it doesn’t bother me.

Black economy tax evasion is the largest component of the official "tax gap" - more than rich people avoiding tax! If being party to tax evasion doesn't "bother" you, then you clearly don't have a working moral compass.

ChompinCrocodiles · 21/04/2025 19:37

Badbadbunny · 21/04/2025 19:25

Tax evasion IS money laundering, i.e. proceeds of crime, benefitting from a crime, etc.

🤣

You can Google what ML is, you know, if you're not sure.

Probably better to do that next time before posting absolute codswallop 🙈

SugarandSpiceandAllThingsNaice · 21/04/2025 19:46

Having a new bathroom fitted. 2k deposit, 2k at start of job, 2k half way through all by bank transfer. He’s asked for the final 2k (when I’m happy and it’s all finished) in cash.

These terms are so nonstandard they are screaming scamming cowboy 🤠 contractor.

2k deposit plus 2k at start = 50% deposit, when it should be a big fat ZERO
2k halfway by bank transfer is ok if it’s already sunk cost of materials.
It should be 6k by bank transfer when all done ✔️

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