What are my options

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Im in a miserable marriage. Im 25 have a 3yo and 1yo

DH Is horrible. He says you have tl tell kids off when they're naughty
But he just shouting? It's not reprimanding or telling off its shouting

And hes so mean and im mise4able
But im scared at the thought of trying to co parent with him hed make my life hell

Im so scared to leave and what he'd do

In what way?

Is there any way I could get ful custody how do I leave wgen im terrifi3d what he'd do if I did

Try Womens Aid. They can advise where you can get legal advice, a safe place for you and dc to go to and the steps to follow.

He could find me though couldn't he? He doesn't have a criminal record but he is erratic and verbally abusive and im terrified I think hed genuinely try to take rhe kids and kidnap them just to make me panic and ruin my life not because hed care for them

You can get court orders to place them with you but he may have access. WA are very experienced in this.

Thank you i may need to speak to them im so scared but I just want the best for my kids

You can go to a women's refuge if you think he'd harm you or the children if you left.

You can contact the National Domestic Abuse Helpline for advice, they're available 24/7

Go to women's aid, the longer you leave it, the worse it will get. He is verbally abusive if not physically abusive and it may escalate.