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Calling HR/Office Managers please

38 replies

RightSideTwisted · 17/04/2025 23:08

(NC for this.)

For legitimate business reasons you are about to turn down a request to drop to four days from a highly valued staff member. Roughly 75% of staff at the same level are part time.

How do you stop them walking? Is there a compromise?

Any suggestions would be appreciated, thank you.

OP posts:
Notsuchafattynow · 18/04/2025 18:06

RightSideTwisted · 18/04/2025 08:11

I think this may be the way to go.

Thanks everyone.

Or offer a 9 day fortnight (4days compressed are very long days).

BunnyRuddington · 18/04/2025 18:16

RentalWoesNotFun · 18/04/2025 17:57

It did cross my mind that it could be a man but statistically more woman go kart time so I treated it as a woman employee but it makes no odds as my advice is the same as I’d treat them the same whether it not they had dangly bits.

Did you have a point to make if it was a man instead?

Now imagining all of the PT colleagues going to work in a Go Kart Grin

FedUpandEatingChocolate · 18/04/2025 18:23

If you run a business, you should be consulting an HR professional, not Mumsnet 🙄

FedUpandEatingChocolate · 18/04/2025 18:24

Sorry just read the full thread! Oops.

Harassedevictee · 18/04/2025 18:26

RightSideTwisted · 18/04/2025 08:11

I think this may be the way to go.

Thanks everyone.

Definitely try compressed hours either 4 day week or 9 day fortnight. 4 days can be tough as long days, but 9 days is not too bad e.g. 37.5 hours a week = 8 hours 20 minutes so less than an hour extra.

Make to NWD a Monday and point out if it’s a BH Monday they don’t use leave so get the hours to take another time. Do an example calculating leave in hours to illustrate. Point out if they take a weeks leave on the 4 day week it stretches annual leave.

Oblomov25 · 18/04/2025 19:01

What exactly is the business reason why it was declined. It has to be explained.

Harassedevictee · 18/04/2025 19:29

Oblomov25 · 18/04/2025 19:01

What exactly is the business reason why it was declined. It has to be explained.

The op stated “For legitimate business reasons” so knows that they have to explain it. We don’t need to know what they are.

The op is asking how to retain a valued member of staff by offering flexibility the business can support.

Needtosoundoffandbreathe · 18/04/2025 19:31

MrsMoastyToasty · 18/04/2025 08:20

Not HR, but as a member of staff I would be mightily pissed off if most of my colleagues were part time and I wasn't allowed to. I'd probably raise a grievance.
It's better to retain already trained staff than have to have to recruit and train new staff who wouldn't be working at maximum capacity in the early days.

Depends what the job is surely?

Oblomov25 · 18/04/2025 21:33

@Harassedevictee
eh? Op says she's the employee.

Harassedevictee · 18/04/2025 22:20

Oblomov25 · 18/04/2025 21:33

@Harassedevictee
eh? Op says she's the employee.

Sorry missed that as the original op appeared to be from an HR person.

Harassedevictee · 18/04/2025 22:55

RightSideTwisted · 18/04/2025 12:03

See this is exactly the problem.

I'm the employee BTW (I've been told I'm "highly valued" 😇).

They've been so accommodating to fee earners and secretaries alike, it's meant my boss has had to pick up the slack which has filtered down to me. I'm now working harder than I ever have as is my boss. These are all people who have started after me - applying for FT jobs and then we're told "oh they'll be working Monday to Thursday".

My reasons for wanting to drop a day are simply that I'm 61 and a bit knackered. Not quite financially ready for retirement. I'd really like to carve out a bit of time for myself now like every other fucker after working full time since I was 19. They know this.

I'm always at least a day behind simply due to the volume of work so I fully understand why it's going to be a no.

My current thinking is to ask for every other Friday as suggested by a pp. It will probably still be a no and actually I don't fancy longer but fewer days notwithstanding my earlier comment.

I know they're desperate for me to stay but they've painted themselves into a bit of a corner.

Ironically I can see clearly what changes need to be made across the firm but (frustratingly) it's not my place to tell them how to do their job is it?

Edited

I genuinely missed this post. Sorry.
This puts a completely different slant on what you need to do.

A lot of HR and managers lack creativity when it comes to flexible working. What you need to do is solve the problem for them.

You have a lot of knowledge which they will lose when you retire or resign.

Work out what you want, not just now but into retirement. Is it shorter days or less days? I personally dropped Wednesdays then Tuesdays and Wednesdays but I have known people go for 6 hour days I.e. they start early and finish mid afternoon. If you end up staying late dropping full days makes more sense.

Fridays are always popular NWD but Monday’s are better for leave and BH. Have a look how many colleagues currently work Monday to Thursday, if it’s most then opting for Monday means they can’t argue to few staff.

Your work load has gone up because so many work part time. This is not fair - what you need is a business case that illustrates the business is understaffed due to PT and they need to recruit someone you can train and develop to take over some of your increased work load and also cover on your NWD. Plus they can help cover the other PT staff on their NWD. This person could be PT.

Point out this allows you to do knowledge transfer before you retire and is good practice in business continuity and succession planning terms.

Yes there is a cost but point out if they recruit on the basis of FT and appoint PT they are saving salaries against budget. Plus if you drop a day they save 20% - It’s not quite that much. If you can do the headcount, FTE actual costs that strengthens your case.

Yes it’s doing their job for them but, as you say, they have painted themselves in a corner a business case where your NWD is different to most PT removes a lot of the argument as others are working on your NWD and can pick up the extra work like you do for your colleagues on their NWD

Sorry this is long

HTH

RightSideTwisted · 19/04/2025 09:14

Thank you Harassedevictee for your very helpful post.

A lot of HR and managers lack creativity when it comes to flexible working. What you need to do is solve the problem for them.

This is kind of where I was going with my OP. I realise it was a bit clumsy but I was trying to work out what might be acceptable to them (and me hopefully!).

OP posts:
ByQuaintAzureWasp · 20/05/2025 08:15

fashionqueen0123 · 18/04/2025 10:38

I agree. I’m not sure you could justify saying no in a situation where the majority are already part time. I’d be looking for a new job.

Absolutely incorrect. If, at this moment, the business needs her full time they don't have to permit part time, no matter how many other staff are part time.

Perhaps send an email round to see if anybody wants extra hours - to try and cover the work first. I'd try my best not to lose a good member of staff.

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