I'm not too troubled by this (not as much as it will seem by posting) but wondering what's really going on in DP's mind. First I'm not sure if he's really DP, but I'm too old for a BF!
Because we were friends before we got together and because we have a lot of shared interest groups, we're together almost every day. Often that will be at a club or similar where we both happen to be in the same place but aren't "seeing" each other, but then we'll have a drink/cuppa after.
Anyway we had a conversation, initiated by him, that we perhaps see each other too frequently and it's good to do things apart. I agree 100% and before we became a thing I'd have said I didn't have time to see anyone more than a handful of times a month. However he is very good at finding ways to squeeze a meet up and lots of the things I'm busy with he's at too. It's nice that he wants to see lots of me.
For example we with due at a "thing" this evening, but we'll be in different groups , will probably do little more than nod at each other, we've arranged to go to the cinema afterwards and we're away together for a couple of nights over the BH weekend, so we have a lot of time together scheduled.
He's just messaged to say how about meeting for a walk before the thing. It's a lovely day, a walk with him is a lovely thing, I'm going to go, even though I agree we should probably see less of each other. So I guess he's in the same place, knows we "should" have time apart but doesn't really want to?
I'm not sure if this is really lovely or a bit of a worry...? Fwiw neither of us have been in a relationship for several years and all his impromptu meet ups are about time together, not booty calls. He'd also be fine if I said no, and I do sometimes, but I'd actually like to go this afternoon.