Does that mean I'm not that into him?
We have a good time together spend all of most weekends together and meet a couple of times in the week.
It's a good life, we're out and about or away all weekend, get on and have fun.
But, I have no involvement in his life admin, except, for example, when he can't find his glasses at mine (which happens too often!) and we have no shared responsibilities with regard to household chores or maintenance. We'll help each other out, if for example I needed a lift to get my car serviced, but organising it is all mine and vice versa.
Anyway that's a long winded way of saying, I like sharing the good bits without sharing the drudgery.
Also, we're quite mismatched financially. I live comfortably and drive a good car etc, he lives in a modest rented flat, within his means, which means he is able to pay his way when we're out (and wants to). However, if we had shared expenses, I'd be paying a higher share, which is as it should be, but I'm not sure how much I'd like it.
But maybe if I really liked him, none of this would matter?