Hi, a friend, who I met at work about eight years ago and became good friends with is ghosting me and I don't know why.
She can be opinionated but also has a good sense of humour which drew me towards her,.
She always said that she classed me as a good friend. We met up when we could. She retired from work two years ago but we still kept in touch every day via Messenger and still met up. I went to a view a flat with her that she had been offered two years ago as she said that she valued my opinion.
We also went on a week's holiday two years ago and it wasn't the good laugh I thought it would be as she was quite snappy with me no reason but I let it go. By this time she had met some friends while she was on holiday one time on her own, who live in another part of the country and she did change after that. They are more the boozy party type of people whereas I am not anymore. Since she met them she kept going on about them to me all the time and how wonderful they are. I am not jealous by any means and I have other friends too but I don't behave like this and oust out my original friends.
We were still in contact regularly and then in January she replied to a message to say she was busy and she would message me the next day. I haven't heard from her since then. At first I thought something might be wrong and I messaged twice within intervals to check that she was ok, no reply.
I knew she was OK when she suddenly posted on Facebook that she was away with these other friends. People had put comments on her post which she replied to, I put on a message to say I am glad she is OK as I had been concerned about her and she hasn't answered at all so I know now that she is ignoring me.
I find this very hurtful and I have done nothing wrong. Should I just let go and forget about her?