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Cleaners wearing shoes indoors?

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francesfrans · 01/04/2025 11:08

I’ve booked a cleaner to come this week and then every week following this to help my maintain the house and I’m finding it a struggle with a newborn and toddler with a partner who works away. We never wear our shoes indoors, to me this is grim. My friend who has a cleaner (different one) says her cleaner wears shoes indoors and says this is standard. Is this so? If it is I would probably rather not go ahead. We have brand new carpets and I don’t want dirt/germs/bacteria trailing in form outdoors. But on the other hand I could really do with the help. Anyone else who has a cleaner what are your thoughts on this and does your cleaner wear shoes indoors?

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ScentOfAMoomin · 01/04/2025 19:53

I find the idea of no shoes inside much grimmer than people wearing shoes!

but your house your rules

HÆLTHEPAIN · 01/04/2025 21:03

I’ve had two sets of cleaners. One set wore plastic covers and the other set brought crocs that they put on at the door. In both cases it was their choice. I’m sure they’ll be ok with doing something similar.

WhatFlavourIsIt · 01/04/2025 23:24

I change into my crocs or indoor trainers. I've been to clean some nasty places so no way would I plan to go shoeless especially to a house I haven't been to before. Pretty sure most cleaners do this. You could get some shoe covers if it makes you feel better. I'd be happy to put them on if asked.

ilovesooty · 01/04/2025 23:40

murasaki · 01/04/2025 11:27

Mine brings slider style things so no outdoor shoes.

Which is entirely up to her , I wouldn't mind either way.

So does mine.

CombatBarbie · 01/04/2025 23:53

francesfrans · 01/04/2025 11:37

Why? Because there are all kinds of germs, dirt and bacteria on the ground, I even see people walking past spitting on the ground, and one specific man who often walks past who like to blow his nose directly on the ground, dogs wee everywhere, we live near the coast so lots of bird/seagull mess on the ground… just a few reasons. My child plays on the floor, baby will eventually crawl etc .. we have never worn shoes indoors and I think it’s disgusting personally.

So clean the floors yourself then 🤷🏼‍♀️

POTC · 02/04/2025 00:06

Most employment insurance policies require shoes for health & safety purposes. I'd just provide shoe covers

mathanxiety · 02/04/2025 00:10

francesfrans · 01/04/2025 11:37

Why? Because there are all kinds of germs, dirt and bacteria on the ground, I even see people walking past spitting on the ground, and one specific man who often walks past who like to blow his nose directly on the ground, dogs wee everywhere, we live near the coast so lots of bird/seagull mess on the ground… just a few reasons. My child plays on the floor, baby will eventually crawl etc .. we have never worn shoes indoors and I think it’s disgusting personally.

Are you generally an anxious person?
Have you been more anxious or feeling more protective since your baby was born?

Have you given any consideration to the idea that your children need to build their immunity, and exposure to a certain amount of dirt and bacteria is how this important part of their early years should happen?

I'm not suggesting you relax your no shoes rule for your family. However, the small risk of dirt/ germs/ bacteria entering your home on the shoes of the cleaners once a week (which will presumably be hoovered up by the cleaners themselves) is not something you should be fretting about.

mathanxiety · 02/04/2025 00:15

TizerorFizz · 01/04/2025 12:35

Your baby will get far more germs from being around people! You actually need DC to build up resistance to bacteria. Someone wearing shoes really doesn’t harm babies but from what you say about your neighbourhood - I’d move.

YYY to this.

PolliFlinders · 02/04/2025 00:20

ScentOfAMoomin · 01/04/2025 19:53

I find the idea of no shoes inside much grimmer than people wearing shoes!

but your house your rules

Agree

Moier · 02/04/2025 00:23

I have a cleaner/ carer.. ( I'm severely disabled) had her years.. she keeps a pair of crocs at my house and changes into them.

user9632579 · 02/04/2025 01:10

Oh the typical MN response, up in arms about no shoes.

I have the same policy OP (have a sign on the door) however all my permanent cleaners have been extremely hygienic and always have a pair of Havaianas to hand! But otherwise you tell them to remove their shoes if they don't automatically.

Tbrh · 02/04/2025 01:48

Ask her to wear some clean shoes or slippers (that you pay for that she can keep at your house). I agree it's grim.

Movinghouseatlast · 02/04/2025 04:59

Every cleaner I've ever had has taken tbeir shoes off.

You can buy over shoe covers if you are worried. You can even get washable ones.

beachcitygirl · 02/04/2025 05:31

It’s not complicated- convey that you’re a shoes off household & invite her to leave slippers or sliders at your home.

musicismath · 02/04/2025 05:48

CombatBarbie · 01/04/2025 23:53

So clean the floors yourself then 🤷🏼‍♀️

Did you mean that to come out sounding like you were judging someone for not cleaning their own floors? Because that’s how it sounded to me.

MissHollysDolly · 02/04/2025 06:25

We have cleaners through an agency and so they change a lot. They ALL bring inside shoes - some slippers, some sliders some clean trainers. Why would they want to clean a floor and then traipse mud back through it?

Rainydaysandwellybobs · 02/04/2025 06:25

You can buy fake 'crocs' at Wyndsors for about £8.00 a pair, probably even cheaper in Primarni.

Just ask the cleaner what size she is and buy the crocs to keep at your house.

Everysand · 02/04/2025 06:28

Surely they just bring indoor slippers/crocs with them

HelenWheels · 02/04/2025 06:29

i would let her carry on with her preference

Everysand · 02/04/2025 06:31

Perhaps she thinks that you don't even allow indoor shoes

CombatBarbie · 02/04/2025 09:27

musicismath · 02/04/2025 05:48

Did you mean that to come out sounding like you were judging someone for not cleaning their own floors? Because that’s how it sounded to me.

No....she's going on about bacteria and germs. If she doesn't want a cleaner wearing shoes (which would go against health and safety anyway) then she should just clean it herself.

Given the current attitude about outdoor shoes I reckon she'd be a nightmare to clean for anyway.

user9632579 · 02/04/2025 09:50

CombatBarbie · 02/04/2025 09:27

No....she's going on about bacteria and germs. If she doesn't want a cleaner wearing shoes (which would go against health and safety anyway) then she should just clean it herself.

Given the current attitude about outdoor shoes I reckon she'd be a nightmare to clean for anyway.

Can you c&p the h&s regulations this breaks.

Some people have high hygeine levels and others don't.

yikesanotherbooboo · 02/04/2025 10:20

We don’t expect visitors to take off their shoes although we all wear slippers. If you are a shoes off household you can just inform the cleaner, you are unlikely to be the only one on their list, and they can bring indoor shoes with them. Our cleaner wore Crocs.

Ecocool · 02/04/2025 10:31

CombatBarbie · 02/04/2025 09:27

No....she's going on about bacteria and germs. If she doesn't want a cleaner wearing shoes (which would go against health and safety anyway) then she should just clean it herself.

Given the current attitude about outdoor shoes I reckon she'd be a nightmare to clean for anyway.

"outdoor shoes" There, you've said it.

BumbleBeegu · 02/04/2025 10:39

Mine takes hers off OUTSIDE bless her! She even brings a carrier bag to put them in ☺️ She’s the best 🥰

I didn’t ask her to do this, but I am a ‘shoes off’ house so am very grateful. I would also have no problem asking anyone to leave their shoes in the porch either…I have a basket of spa slippers for people to use if they like something on their feet. I wear socks myself, but I do get that others prefer a slipper.