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Police arrest parents who slate school on class WhatsApp

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noblegiraffe · 29/03/2025 09:29

A primary school sought advice from the police after '“a high volume of direct correspondence and public social media posts” that had become upsetting for staff, parents and governors.' and the police response was to send 6 officers to their house to arrest the couple making the posts and put them in a cell all day.

Although the couple sound like an absolute pain in the arse who should pack it in, 6 police officers seems like a teensy bit of overkill, particularly with the amount of crime currently going uninvestigated. But with schools faced with spiralling numbers of vexatious parental complaints, something needs to happen. I think some unions are starting to offer legal advice and template solicitor letters for this situation.

https://www.thetimes.com/article/d8c8566b-99b1-45c6-814b-008042d74a3a?shareToken=6deab807d148cf7695ed4d9d3664c51e

Police arrest parents who complained in school WhatsApp group

The couple were detained in front of their daughter and kept in a cell for eight hours over their messages on the app as well as emails sent to the school

https://www.thetimes.com/article/d8c8566b-99b1-45c6-814b-008042d74a3a?shareToken=6deab807d148cf7695ed4d9d3664c51e

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TheCastleDoesNotReply · 06/04/2025 08:55

saraclara · 05/04/2025 22:27

I shouldn't laugh, but...!

How vindictive and unpleasant to laugh at someone having hurt themselves.

EmpressoftheMundane · 06/04/2025 10:17

Human beings don’t always agree and get along. Neither schools nor parents will be right all the time. Running to the police to get your own way is unworkable and inappropriate.

The school just looks silly. I hope this massive overreach leads to an investigation of hiring process.

zenactive · 06/04/2025 13:51

dapsnotplimsolls · 05/04/2025 22:44

We've only seen the emails and comments that the parents have provided. I'd want to see all of them before I can comment on what I'd have done.

I meant based on what we know, based on the information we do have, so not second guessing the real situation but based on what we know and what we can see and perceive and what the parents have said, I was wondering how you would have managed that (albeit fictional to some extent) situation.

zenactive · 06/04/2025 13:52

There have been recent changes in the law in France in relation to parent/school interaction, are the teachers here hoping for similar things to happen in the UK?

dapsnotplimsolls · 06/04/2025 13:58

zenactive · 06/04/2025 13:52

There have been recent changes in the law in France in relation to parent/school interaction, are the teachers here hoping for similar things to happen in the UK?

Got a link?

zenactive · 06/04/2025 14:03

A link to what?

dapsnotplimsolls · 06/04/2025 14:04

zenactive · 06/04/2025 14:03

A link to what?

A link about the changes to the law in France.

zenactive · 06/04/2025 14:06

Sorry, my mind was on something else - do you mean can I link to an article about it or something? No, it is something I've been aware of for a while. I can give more info later when i get the chance. Are you not aware of this then?

dapsnotplimsolls · 06/04/2025 14:07

zenactive · 06/04/2025 14:06

Sorry, my mind was on something else - do you mean can I link to an article about it or something? No, it is something I've been aware of for a while. I can give more info later when i get the chance. Are you not aware of this then?

Nope.

Lolapusht · 06/04/2025 15:25

dapsnotplimsolls · 05/04/2025 22:22

As for Rosalind, she can't even drink a cup of tea without having to call an ambulance.

Mum's thigh 'melted off' after she drank healthy herbal tea - Hull Live

It wasn’t really having to call an ambulance for drinking a cup of tea though, was it? She sustained a massive burn. The story is written in a sensationalist way and is a complete non-story, but don’t think an injury like that is worthy of ridicule.

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dapsnotplimsolls · 06/04/2025 17:14

Thank you but the poster mentioned recent changes to the law and that article is nearly 5 years old.

FrippEnos · 06/04/2025 17:52

Its the only thing that I could find that is similar to what the thread is about. and its linked to France banning/trying to ban alternative provision.

But more parental involvement is what all teachers want.

TheCastleDoesNotReply · 06/04/2025 18:12

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dapsnotplimsolls · 06/04/2025 18:15

Blimey.

FrippEnos · 06/04/2025 18:19

dapsnotplimsolls · 06/04/2025 18:15

Blimey.

She has a serious chip on her shoulder doesn't she.

dapsnotplimsolls · 06/04/2025 18:24

No comment.

FrippEnos · 06/04/2025 18:26

dapsnotplimsolls · 06/04/2025 18:24

No comment.

That is the correct answer :)

TheCastleDoesNotReply · 06/04/2025 18:26

FrippEnos · 06/04/2025 18:19

She has a serious chip on her shoulder doesn't she.

Once again, people with these types of attitudes towards someone, who has told you they have a disability and that they were failed by school as a child so had to teach themself to write (yet you thinking it appropriate to mock their writing, regardless) really just demonstrates my point.

dapsnotplimsolls · 06/04/2025 18:26

As a secondary school teacher, I have very little interaction with parents. I expect Heads of Year and SLT to know all the legislation.

FrippEnos · 06/04/2025 18:28

dapsnotplimsolls · 06/04/2025 18:26

As a secondary school teacher, I have very little interaction with parents. I expect Heads of Year and SLT to know all the legislation.

You would hope so, but it isn't always the case.
But it is also their job to protect their employees.

TheCastleDoesNotReply · 06/04/2025 18:30

FrippEnos · 06/04/2025 18:26

That is the correct answer :)

The correct answer would be that the teachers posting here go and take a long, hard look in the mirror.

If they like what they see then they should be nowhere near children and resign.

If they don’t, then reviewing the laws governing their profession so that they can at least in future try to perform their jobs at the minimum legally required level rather than being furious with parents for expecting them to do so, would be a good start. But clearly they’d need to be aware of the legal requirements first, of which you and your little friend with whom you are enjoying exchanging insults about me have both clearly demonstrated in your posts that you do not have the slightest awareness.

dapsnotplimsolls · 06/04/2025 18:33

My job does not require me to have extensive knowledge of legislation relating to education and children. I do the safeguarding training every year that my school requires me to do. I'm not furious. How is 'Blimey' an insult?

FrippEnos · 06/04/2025 18:38

dapsnotplimsolls · 06/04/2025 18:33

My job does not require me to have extensive knowledge of legislation relating to education and children. I do the safeguarding training every year that my school requires me to do. I'm not furious. How is 'Blimey' an insult?

Anyone that disagrees with that poster makes the 'bad'/'poor' teacher list.

TheCastleDoesNotReply · 06/04/2025 18:39

dapsnotplimsolls · 06/04/2025 18:26

As a secondary school teacher, I have very little interaction with parents. I expect Heads of Year and SLT to know all the legislation.

Oh dear.

You don’t think that you should know the law about your own profession, with which you’re required to comply?

You have personal responsibility legally to comply with it. “My boss told me to” isn’t a legally valid defence.

What if your boss behaves illegally and tells you to do something illegal? How will you ensure you’re complying with the law and the TRA’s ethical and professional codes if you don’t even know what the law states?

You can’t call yourself a professional if you’re happy to be this ignorant. This isn’t acceptable for anybody in any profession. In any other profession regardless of what the organisational policies were, you would be personally held accountable and struck off for breaking the law and not whistleblowing and refusing to do it, if the organisational policy broke the law.

The utter irresponsibility of this post is eye-opening, like you don’t even think it is your responsibility to ensure that you comply with the law of your profession.

And you wonder why people don’t view teachers as proper professionals like those in law, finance, medicine.

You come here, spouting nonsense with no understanding of the law about your own job. Then claim parents are unreasonable.

I wonder why there is such animosity between many parents and schools, with teachers so ignorant about the legal minimum requirements of their own jobs and saying it’s someone else’s job to tell them what they’re meant to do.

In proper professions, that wouldn’t stand up. You’d not only be stripped of your professional qualifications but be personally fined and, in cases of deliberate and repeated breaches, imprisoned.

A zero-tolerance regulator is clearly the only way to clear up the disgraceful, toxic and illegal behaviour explified by the appalling comments seen here from teachers. You have no shame, and are happy even to post publicly about your total ignorance and disregard for the law and pretend the problem must be anybody who calls you out on it.

Ironically, you have perfectly proved my point.

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