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How should this be divided up?

48 replies

H0LLOW · 23/03/2025 12:49

— One family of four (2 adults and 2 kids)
— one couple
— one dad and daughter

£2000 for the holiday home

kids are all teens, not working

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MightyBust · 23/03/2025 12:50

I think it depends on the necessary room allocation actually.

ScrewedByFunding · 23/03/2025 12:52

Assuming this is family, we always just divide it by number of adults (not dc still at uni though).

Easterbunnygettingsorted · 23/03/2025 12:53

Our family holidays (working adults and teens) is paid for accommodation per adult and the dps pay for their own dc's food contributions..
So divide the house by 5 adults and food with dc's share paid by their dps...

CaptainFuture · 23/03/2025 12:53

MightyBust · 23/03/2025 12:50

I think it depends on the necessary room allocation actually.

This, if the family of 4 are using 2 rooms, and the dad and daughter are sharing or separate? The couple shouldn't be paying for other people!

AnneElliott · 23/03/2025 12:54

I’d divide the cost by the bedrooms that were being occupied by each family group.

faerietales · 23/03/2025 12:55

Pay per room.

TwentyTwentyFive · 23/03/2025 12:55

MightyBust · 23/03/2025 12:50

I think it depends on the necessary room allocation actually.

Agreed. Surely the family of 4 and dad and daughter are using more rooms than the couple?

SchoolDilemma17 · 23/03/2025 12:56

Divided by rooms. First family presumably uses 2 bedrooms and pays half. The other couples pay one quarter each.

user1471538275 · 23/03/2025 12:56

£1000 for couple and 2 kids (4 people)
£500 for couple (2 people)
£500 for Dad and daughter (2 people)

rooms wise - depends if 4/5/6 rooms
4 rooms - 2 couples then split between men/women (if even split)

5 rooms - 2 couples, 1 dad, 1 daughter, 2 kids (if same sex), if not can girl share with daughter

6 rooms - 2 couples, everyone else gets their own room

H0LLOW · 23/03/2025 12:56

Family of four is two rooms. Dad and daughter two rooms and the couple have one room.
currently it’s being divided per person but I don’t think that is fair

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SchoolDilemma17 · 23/03/2025 12:57

TwentyTwentyFive · 23/03/2025 12:55

Agreed. Surely the family of 4 and dad and daughter are using more rooms than the couple?

I mean depends on the child’s age. It’s all a bit unclear from the post.
a 4-5 bedroom home for 2k seems a good deal to me!

Agane · 23/03/2025 12:57

If I was the couple, I'd day divide by three. If I was the family I'd say divide by room.

If the conversation will be anything other than easy, you shouldn't be going on holiday together.

H0LLOW · 23/03/2025 12:57

5 rooms

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SchoolDilemma17 · 23/03/2025 12:58

£400 per room then

TwentyTwentyFive · 23/03/2025 12:58

H0LLOW · 23/03/2025 12:56

Family of four is two rooms. Dad and daughter two rooms and the couple have one room.
currently it’s being divided per person but I don’t think that is fair

It's not fair to pay per person if the dad and daughter are getting two room but paying the same as the couple who only have one. By room is the fairest split.

Overthebow · 23/03/2025 12:58

Divide per room

TheChosenTwo · 23/03/2025 12:58

We go away on big family holidays and discuss before we book how many rooms each of us require. Then we pay based on how many rooms we each need.

taxguru · 23/03/2025 12:58

By bedroom AND by person so that it's weighted more evenly and fairly.
So 8 people, and assuming 4 bedrooms so 12 in total.
The couple sharing a room pay 3/12
The family of four in 2 rooms pays 6/12
The father/daughter in one room pays 3/12
Or if father/daughter are in two rooms, so 5 rooms in total, divide by 13
so father and daughter pay 4/13ths
You could "tweak" it further by allocating different room sizes, i.e. 1 for a single room or 1.5/2 for a double room.

user1471538275 · 23/03/2025 13:00

Not all rooms are created equal - are there single bed rooms, ensuite rooms etc?

Because in my £500 calculation for Dad and daughter it's on the premise that they get the single room/ daughter shares if another girl about or gets the smallest room if not

BobbyBiscuits · 23/03/2025 13:01

The late teens class as adults so parents should pay for each of them as such. Presumably the smaller children are sharing rooms with their parents? Either way the cost of the children shouldn't be divided across the whole group. As some don't have any!

SchoolDilemma17 · 23/03/2025 13:02

You are all making this so complicated. Presumably they all like each other, £400 per room per week in a holiday villa is a good deal. £800 for a family with teens for a week is great. So what if the rooms are not all the same size, surely they are only there for sleeping, and are spending the day doing fun activities together.

faerietales · 23/03/2025 13:02

£800 for the family of four (two rooms)
£800 for the dad and daughter (two rooms)
£400 for the couple (one room).

TwentyTwentyFive · 23/03/2025 13:04

faerietales · 23/03/2025 13:02

£800 for the family of four (two rooms)
£800 for the dad and daughter (two rooms)
£400 for the couple (one room).

Seems fairest to me.

I appreciate what those arguing all rooms aren't equal are saying but that shouldn't mean the couple are paying more when they will only have one room.

Mumofteenandtween · 23/03/2025 13:09

Divide cost in half. Half cost is for “communal area” and half for bedrooms.

Communal costs are divided by person and bedrooms by room.

So 8 people and 5 bedrooms.

£125 per person plus £200 per bedroom.

So couple pays £450.
Dad and daughter pays £650.
Family pays £900.

Dora33 · 23/03/2025 13:11

850 for family, 475 for couple, 675 for daughter & father. As family will have more people using living space, kitchen , bathrooms etc.

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