My dd nearly 16 and is a lovely girl. Never had any issues in school.
She's a bit different at home, typical teen girl but she and ds have a very antagonistic relationship (he's younger)
They have quite different temperaments and interests.
The issue is my son is hurt and is in a lot of pain he's been hobbling along for months it's impacted his activities. Last week she was really annoying him taunting him and ended up tearing a note of his a bit. I told her to go upstairs away from him, then he just burst into tears sobbing uncontrollably. After soothing him I went upstairs and tried to talk to her but she was just so nonchalant so I told her off. She has been so quiet since then hardly said a word and everytime I try and talk to her I just get the basics.
How do I approach this with her? I go withdrawn when I'm upset so really need help vocalising and to open communication up. Any advice is appreciated.