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Communication improvements

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Sourdoughandjam · 17/03/2025 18:10

I sometimes struggle to articulate my thoughts in a concise and coherent way. I am better in writing than I am verbally but in both I can waffle and repeat myself. I think this is a lack of confidence but I also suspect I have undiagnosed ASD.

Are there any apps or programmes I can use to practise communicating in a concise and clear way to support me doing this at work?

Thanks for any ideas.

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TheWhoBird · 18/03/2025 02:15

I don't know of any particular apps or programmes, but I would suggest slowing down your speech and thinking a bit more about what you want to say before you say it. This might not be an issue for you but may be worth considering.

Sourdoughandjam · 18/03/2025 03:46

Thank you.

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pickywatermelon · 18/03/2025 03:49

PPT can now apparently evaluate your presentation

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More people practice than you realise - even rehearsing once will improve whatever you are communicating wildly

Also use the rule of three - most people forget if you don’t get all the way through - but it sounds much more structured to say “well, there are three things on that … 1 …” and it gives you time to think

The other advice I have is say way less. Most people give way too detailed answers to questions - it feels (for the person asking the q) much better if you give the briefest possible first reply, and ask if that addresses the Q - most people feel obliged to say everything they know

Happyinarcon · 18/03/2025 04:04

Try writing things in bullet points. I used them to make my written communication more concise and now use them when thinking to frame my thoughts when I speak

Wellfuckmesideways · 18/03/2025 04:53

AI programmes might be better for you. If you have Office 365 or Windows, then Copilot might be worth a go. I have it on my phone - simply say what I want and it generates it for me. Good for written communications.

Sourdoughandjam · 18/03/2025 12:21

Wellfuckmesideways · 18/03/2025 04:53

AI programmes might be better for you. If you have Office 365 or Windows, then Copilot might be worth a go. I have it on my phone - simply say what I want and it generates it for me. Good for written communications.

Thanks. It's the verbal side I find much harder.

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