Since giving birth 6 months ago I started doing 3/4 of the night wakkings for milk and all the dummy moments etc. I then started to go very down hill with exhaustion so occasionally we would swap sides and he would do more if I was struggling to much. It got to the point where I wasn’t coping and something was medically wrong. Turns out I was severely anemic and low in lots of vitamins. Prior to finding this out he had started doing 3/4 night wakings and letting me sleep so I could mange the whole day alone with a baby. When baby cried i wouldn’t wake up. Now I’ve had an iron transfusion and my vitamins are all under control which is great. I’m just not waking up for my baby I’m in such a deep sleep husband is still ending up doing the nights. I’ve tried to wake up but I’m just not and I’m finding it quite sad that I don’t wake for my baby crying. I’ve told my husband to wake me up when he cries so that maybe I get used to being woken up but he dosnt really do that as he’s used to it now and would rather I sleep. I’m getting quite distressed by it as I feel awful that I don’t respond to my baby. It also means i can’t nap when baby naps as I’m home alone and worried I won’t wake up.