Ask for a half plot .
as a family we have a half plot
officially it’s my husbands , and I would say he spend a full day down there once a fortnight through the winter
in the summer he will aim for more smaller times - most days watering up if it’s hot
and fitting in an hour or so before after work for weeding and tidying.
I have summer holidays off and will go water up if he’s at work too many hours, and I will occasionally fill a bag of weeds .
eldest has absolutely no interest at all , the most she will do is drop off the compost or a drink for someone working.
youngest will spend an our or so if the power tools are about- he built a nice herb bed last weekend.
also you need to find some one to water up if you go away in summer for more then a day or so
we made half our plot into a grassy area with 7 fruit trees round the edge and a pond in the corner, making a lovely space to take a chair and a book but not so much work and we still get cherries and apples and pears - I just say we are helping nature 🤣
the things we grow well are tomatoes and onions………. Everything else is an expensive hobby lol