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Functioning Alcoholic

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getdowwwwwn · 09/03/2025 17:32

A friend seems to drink far too much.

She's fine during the day whilst at work but as soon as she's home she appears to drink a lot. It's quite a lot every evening without fail and then probably from lunchtime onwards at weekends, ie with lunch and then continued through into the night.

She would deny she has a problem as she holds down a good job, but I'm concerned as she has children at home.

At what stage would you class someone as a functioning alcoholic?

Is it the amount they drink or how often, or both?

Thanks!

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JoyousGreyOrca · 10/03/2025 00:57

MuckFusk · 09/03/2025 21:17

If your estimation of how much she drinks is accurate, she definitely has a drinking problem. Correct me if I'm not understanding this correctly, but are you saying she drinks heavily every evening and from lunchtime to bedtime on weekends? That is grim.
The thing about a functioning alcoholic is that without intervention, they become non-functional eventually. However, she has to recognize she has a problem and want to change.

Not true that people automatically become non functional. I know a functional alcoholic, a nurse, who has been like this for many many years. She will continue doing so until it seriously affects her health.

MuckFusk · 10/03/2025 23:33

JoyousGreyOrca · 10/03/2025 00:57

Not true that people automatically become non functional. I know a functional alcoholic, a nurse, who has been like this for many many years. She will continue doing so until it seriously affects her health.

She might be functional at her job, but her job is not her entire life and unless you live with her, you don't see all of her life. It's bound to have affected some of her relationships, for example. Functional doesn't just mean able to work.

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