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Adult Services for Inflammatory Arthritis

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HavingAMinute · 09/03/2025 08:57

Hi everyone, previously posted in autoimmune but the board seems quiet.

I'm in a bit of a pickle and looking for some advice.

Backstory:

Recently saw Rheum due to swelling, stiffness and pain in joints, plus fatigue. Had a big flare, off work and unable to drive or function.

They suspected inflammatory arthritis (psoriatic likely)

I had an IM steroid injection and started sulfasalazine due to not being ideal for Methotrexate as I'd hoped to try to conceive soon.

Steroid was amazing but I reacted to the Sulfasalazine so that was stopped.

Seeing them again in 3 weeks to try the next medication and have another steroid.

The previous steroid has now stopped working and I am in agony. I take naproxen twice a day and codeine too. But with my wrists, knee, fingers etc all being so stiff and swollen and painful I can't manage to do anything. I have a 3 year old who I am the sole parent of and get support from family. I couldn't chop a bloody vegetable if I tried (which to be honest my three year old feels fine about) but more so I can't turn on the tap, pull my jeans up or get a bra on. Thankfully family support us with meals and such.

I'm 31 and part of me is furious that I am in this position when last year I was fine. But the other larger part of me needs to get some stuff in place to manage our lives better and let me be the parent I want to be.

I couldn't lift the kettle for a cup of tea today and let's be honest.. tea is required for functioning!

So, anyone with any inflammatory arthritis or similar conditions..

What help is out there? What can I do for myself to function in less pain (or at all really).

Any services or aids you've found invaluable?

I have heard of wrist splints etc being helpful for driving etc but wouldn't know where to start in getting some.

I put in a referral to the adult services to ask for some support though unsure what if anything they can do.

Thank-you!

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HavingAMinute · 14/03/2025 22:08

@Soundofshuna- Thank you, I will definitely discuss this with them on Wednesday. They did briefly mention hydroxychloroquine on the phone, but as far as I know that isn't advised for PSA. I chatted to a consultant at work about it just in general conversation and the first thing out her mouth was "that is terrible for your eyes and should be broached with caution"... as an opthalmology consultant I am heading her warning a bit. Especially as PsA is known to mess with your eyes anyway.

They seem able to start me on something and I understand the wait for bioligics so I assume it was hydroxy. Honestly at this point? I'd try bloody anything!

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