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How common are roommates friendship type marriages

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Mummysgogetter · 02/03/2025 14:39

Of 20+ years? Do you think these are the exception not the norm? Surely, there can’t be a many of them that last until the end of days because each person in the marriage is likely to get fed up and/or meet someone else?

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FaithFables · 02/03/2025 14:45

I think those with roommate-type relationships will inevitably end up splitting up. Even if you get along, surely you'd be happier single? DH and I have been together for 30 years and are still very happy together in every way, whereas my parents were more like roommates after 20 years together.

mydogisthebest · 02/03/2025 15:45

We have been married 45 years and still happy and in love. I would not want to live more like flat mates and, if that were the case, we would split up

B1indEye · 02/03/2025 15:57

Wasnt there already a thread about this earlier today? Have I imagined that?

Maitri108 · 02/03/2025 16:06

Very common I imagine due to COL, running two homes and wanting the family to stay together.

NuffSaidSam · 02/03/2025 16:09

I think they're relatively common, but probably not as common as they once were.

I don't think there's anything wrong with this type of marriage if both parties are happy though. I don't consider it 'less than' any other type of marriage.

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