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Which country would you say I am from based on my life story?

25 replies

DDe · 02/03/2025 10:08

Born and raised in London to Nigerian Parents (I was in Nigeria between ages 2-4/2-5).

Mum, born in England, but Dad wasn't.

I then resided in Nigeria from age 13-21.

Came back to London at age 21, and have been there for the past 7 and half years.

I support both England and Nigeria in football.

OP posts:
Midlifecrisisxamillion · 02/03/2025 10:09

British with Nigerian heritage.

sprigatito · 02/03/2025 10:10

I would say you were British with Nigerian heritage, but I think you get the final say - if you said you were Nigerian I wouldn't contradict you!

StepawayfromtheLindors · 02/03/2025 10:10

Not sure if this is a trick question but you’re from the UK.

IEatSauerkrautBeforeItWasCool · 02/03/2025 10:11

Are you the poster who comes quite periodically about the Nigerian British heritage thing?
You are British with Nigerian heritage. Or British Nigerian. It's still the same as mkonths ago

BlumminFreezin · 02/03/2025 10:16

British with Nigerian heritage. If you have an accent however, I imagine you'd be commonly mistaken for being Nigerian/born in Nigeria.

DDe · 02/03/2025 10:20

@BlumminFreezin , my accent is still predominantly a London accent with some tints of Nigerian in it but it's not very noticeable.

Funny enough my cousins that live in the UK now, told me that my accent has never changed, never had a Nigerian one 😁

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Crichel · 02/03/2025 10:25

Not again! You post this all the time, OP. Why do you think it’s Mn’s job to sort out your complex about this? Get some RL help.

Crichel · 02/03/2025 10:26

IEatSauerkrautBeforeItWasCool · 02/03/2025 10:11

Are you the poster who comes quite periodically about the Nigerian British heritage thing?
You are British with Nigerian heritage. Or British Nigerian. It's still the same as mkonths ago

Yes, it won’t have changed since your last post.

dottiehens · 02/03/2025 10:38

You are the one who knows with which culture you identify more? My ex was born here but left to another country for half of his life and even though he is British born he identify as more with the country he moved to. Reject British values and do not want to come back ever. A friend was born here to Portuguese parents but she feels half and half.

Comedycook · 02/03/2025 10:39

Haven't you posted this question many times on here?

saveforthat · 02/03/2025 10:42

I always thought where you are "from" is where you were born.

OssieShowman · 02/03/2025 10:45

My friend was born in Kenya to British parents who were working there.
Later returned to Britain. Then the family migrated to Australia.
She is British.

Imbusytodaysorry · 02/03/2025 10:45

@DDe what do you think?
Which would you prefer ?
I’ve not seen any other posts

tourdefrance · 02/03/2025 10:46

Up to you surely? I was born in the UK but my mum is from another European country (you can probably guess which). I spent every summer holiday there until the age of 18 but have spent less than a year there since then. I still sometimes tick 'White Other' on ethnicity questions and consider myself both British and xxx.

Imbusytodaysorry · 02/03/2025 10:47

OssieShowman · 02/03/2025 10:45

My friend was born in Kenya to British parents who were working there.
Later returned to Britain. Then the family migrated to Australia.
She is British.

Yes my family member was born on Germany to British parents , his dad was in the RAF . Moved back to Britain . He is British

DDe · 02/03/2025 10:50

@Imbusytodaysorry , it's funny how at different stages of my life, I felt one over the other.

But now definitely both, strong ethnic heritage influences coupled with upbringing in England makes me both I feel

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Goody2ShoesAndTheFilthyBeast · 02/03/2025 10:51

Id say you're from Britain.

Talonz · 02/03/2025 10:52

Bridgertonian

Talonz · 02/03/2025 10:55

As other posters have said, British but if you said you were Nigerian wouldn’t have any issues.

Summatoruvva · 02/03/2025 10:55

If you substituted Nigeria for Wales I think people would be more inclined to say you were Welsh and not English.

FloppySarnie · 02/03/2025 10:55

sprigatito · 02/03/2025 10:10

I would say you were British with Nigerian heritage, but I think you get the final say - if you said you were Nigerian I wouldn't contradict you!

This!

Imbusytodaysorry · 02/03/2025 10:56

DDe · 02/03/2025 10:50

@Imbusytodaysorry , it's funny how at different stages of my life, I felt one over the other.

But now definitely both, strong ethnic heritage influences coupled with upbringing in England makes me both I feel

Do you feel that’s nice way to feel ?
Id also say you are British with Nigerian heritage.

You were born in Britain and have spent about 2/3 of your life here.

Crichel · 02/03/2025 10:57

OP, kindly, if you live in London, surely you encounter people who have exactly the same kind of heritage and life experiences as you on a daily basis? Why not talk about it with them, ask how they identify, or how they navigate their heritage, rather than continually asking the identical question on here? I would understand your obvious confusion if you’d moved back from Nigeria aged 21 to somewhere very white, with a static population, but you’re a Londoner! I’m a foreigner who lived in London for many years, and while obviously I was still from my home country, I also felt absolutely a Londoner after a few years - it felt like a very flexible, accommodating identity.

Midlifecrisisxamillion · 02/03/2025 12:35

DDe · 02/03/2025 10:50

@Imbusytodaysorry , it's funny how at different stages of my life, I felt one over the other.

But now definitely both, strong ethnic heritage influences coupled with upbringing in England makes me both I feel

And it's fine to be/feel both and fine if this changes from time to time. You don't have to define things for the sake of other people.

Ellmau · 02/03/2025 12:37

I honestly think you're both.

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