How much money do you spend a month on each of these things ?

[Beckywiththegoodnails]

Trying to work out why I feel so broke all the time
me and 3 teens.

How much do you spend on
food / supermarket - me £480-500 pcm (incl cleaning and toiletries)
Entertainment / eating out - I budget £350
Clothes for self? £70 -£100 for me (need a good work wardrobe regularly refreshed and put on a lot of weight)
clothes for kids? (£120 for 3 and they top up if want labels from pocket money/ selling old clothes etc)

annual Christmas?

annual birthdays?
(I need to work the above out)

thank you

Me, DS (5), and DM (terminally ill and relies on me financially)

How much do you spend on
food / supermarket - £1k a month, all in (but includes lots of organic and pre-prepped stuff)
Entertainment / eating out - £600 a month? £50ish per weekend day plus a few mid-week meals out
Clothes for self? £300/400 (have lost a lot of weight so rebuilding wardrobe, plus regularly have work meetings and need to look presentable)
clothes for kids? £50ish - everything NWT from vinted

annual Christmas? £2k minimum as I host and we do a lot of festive activities
annual birthdays? £400 on (roughly) 40x gifts for parties DS is invited to, £600 DS party, £200 DS gifts, £1k gifts for my friends/family?