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Which books did you read before you were really old enough to understand them?

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PineappleSeahorse · 27/02/2025 18:48

I was a voracious and precocious reader as a child and I became obsessed with my library’s copy of Animal Farm when I was 7. I loved it but of course I had no idea what it was really about.

I suppose that I could have made more inappropriate choices of reading material but I’m curious to know which books you read as a child that you probably shouldn’t have.

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TeaRoseTallulah · 27/02/2025 20:59

nythbran2 · 27/02/2025 18:53

The L shaped room. Picked it off my parents book shelves when I was 8-9ish.

That was in our middle school library!

aniloD · 27/02/2025 21:02

TheRozzers · 27/02/2025 18:52

I read all the Virginia Andrews novels when I was about 10 which totally normalised child abuse, rape and incest.

Another one for Virginia Andews.

I still think it can be read by an advanced young reader, without having any fucking idea about what was happening.

I think I was on the 3rd or 4th book (maybe 14 or 15 years old) before I realised something 'weird' was happening, and even then I didn't relate it back to the earlier books.

(I was 14/15 in the early 70s)

mypingpongbat · 27/02/2025 21:03

Jude the Obscure. "Done because we are too menny". Utterly traumatic as a young teen!

Needmorelego · 27/02/2025 21:04

ItGhoul · 27/02/2025 20:43

I don’t think it was implied she was a prostitute - I think William and Trudy were supposed to be the result of ill-advised (and possibly abusive?) relationships with men who left her. She was actually very religious, I seem to recall.

I think her being religious was a bit of a cover for her life. Making herself seem "better" than her neighbours type thing.

Monvelo · 27/02/2025 21:05

TheRozzers · 27/02/2025 18:52

I read all the Virginia Andrews novels when I was about 10 which totally normalised child abuse, rape and incest.

Yes same, flowers in the attic - I recently purchased the box set for some reason, read the first page, and it was a definite nope!

Screamingabdabz · 27/02/2025 21:08

MWNA · 27/02/2025 20:14

I read everything I could get my hands on as a child. Discovered Erica Jong at 12...

Yep ‘Fear of Flying’ - I just remember thinking these grown ups have all that freedom to stay up late and eat sweets and yet they’re never happy…

OhMaria2 · 27/02/2025 21:08

The Duncton Wood books. I just thought they'd be nice books about moles!

CrystalSingerFan · 27/02/2025 21:09

Thegiantofillinois · 27/02/2025 20:28

I've never met anyone else who's read this! I was similar age. But I am very grateful for the subsequent novels, which taught me (long before an actual boyfriend) that sex should be amazing and that I should bloody well expect to enjoy it. Reckon I'd have put up with less than optimal experiences otherwise.

Well I've read all of the Jean Auel series. They're great, apart from the first one: Clan of the Cave Bear. Too much child sexual abuse, thanks. It's the one book I threw out, although I didn't read it until I was an adult.

Shetlands · 27/02/2025 21:13

I missed out on the thrill (or horror) of reading things I was too young for. When I was a child my parents didn't have any books and I only had one (Heidi) given to me my my Godmother. I read it so many times I almost knew it by heart! I was a voracious reader but could never get my hands on enough material. Magazines would be passed on to Mum and I read all of those despite not being remotely interested in how to bake a Dundee cake or knit matinee jackets.

We had books in school of course but in primary school we weren't allowed to bring any of them home. Then I went to a girls Grammar School which had a library - nothing unsuitable (or very interesting) there! I was about 15 when we read Animal Farm in school for O Level so definitely not too young for it then.

NamechangeRugby · 27/02/2025 21:16

SantaToSSD · 27/02/2025 18:56

Loads. Like you, I was a precocious reader and read loads of adult books when I was still a child. The one I remember is Richard Adams' Watership Down when I was 9, some years before the film came out. I believe it is actually allegorical, I just read it as though it were The Wind in the Willows and had no idea what half of it was about. I ought to re-read it actually.

I also read Wattershipdown about age 9 or 10 because I liked the rabbit on the cover (my older siblings had it kicking about the house) and the music from the film might have been in the charts at the time and I think I was entirely misled as it seemed to be a cartoon... Oh boy, I wept.

Wuthering Heights I read about age 13, practically in a day - I loved it, thought it so so romantic. Read it in my 30's and had no time or patience for Cathy at all. Read it again late 40's - think it finally dawned on me the issues it was actually grappling with.... Brilliantly written.

ElleneAsanto · 27/02/2025 21:19

Velmy · 27/02/2025 20:54

Clockwork Orange when I was about 10 😅

Me too! And every time someone uses “horrorshow”, I think - no, that word doesn’t mean what you think it means.

TheChosenTwo · 27/02/2025 21:22

A dreadful book about Fred and rose west. It was on a relatives bookshelf and I was staying for a week over a half term or something.
Honestly I was such a curious reader! I think the full horrors passed me by at about 11 or 12 but I still remember some awful chapters.
I really enjoy true crime as a genre still now but if I buy them they are donated immediately after reading so my kids (now 20, 19 and 14!) don’t get their hands on them such is my paranoia 😂

piperatthegates · 27/02/2025 21:32

AnnaBegins · 27/02/2025 20:54

Definitely Tess of the D'Urbevilles for me too.

Also Jilly Cooper - I read Appassionata because I like music, my uncle saw me reading it and was horrified!

Animal farm and 1984 for me too, but I loved them so much and got something out of reading them each time.

Go Ask Alice, a book about drug addiction, when I was about 9 and had no way to relate to any of it!

Rumer Godden's books about ballet schools, so much sex in them and I read them at my middle school library aged 10 or 11.

On the flip side, one book I read when I was too "old" for it was On the Road (Jack Kerouac), I couldn't get into the exciting transient lifestyle because I was too busy thinking "his poor mother, how must she be feeling!" Grin I love the 10000 maniacs song where she sings "hey Jack Kerouac I think of your mother and the tears she cried" because that's literally my view too!

I also read Go ask Alice when I was in my teens. Pretty sure it was based on a true story similar to A boy called It). It was a very bleak picture of a young American teens life.

Thegiantofillinois · 27/02/2025 21:32

CrystalSingerFan · 27/02/2025 21:09

Well I've read all of the Jean Auel series. They're great, apart from the first one: Clan of the Cave Bear. Too much child sexual abuse, thanks. It's the one book I threw out, although I didn't read it until I was an adult.

I read them all too!
Cave bear was like nothing else. To be fair, I still remember being hooked by the beginning- the description of the earthquake and her being mauled by the lion. And we're looking at 30+ years ago now.
The cover of the one I read was red and gold.

chickenlettuceunderbacon · 27/02/2025 21:39

Marquis de Sade - 120 Days of Sodom when I was 14 🤦🏻‍♀️

Needmorelego · 27/02/2025 21:43

piperatthegates · 27/02/2025 21:32

I also read Go ask Alice when I was in my teens. Pretty sure it was based on a true story similar to A boy called It). It was a very bleak picture of a young American teens life.

Go Ask Alice was originally claimed to be real which is why it was so controversial but actually turned out that it was "fake" and just a load of fiction 😱
(and A Boy Called It is rumoured to be not as true as it was made out....)

HadtoExclude · 27/02/2025 21:50

Flowers in the attic by Judy Blume. Our reading teacher told us all it was totally inappropriate when someone did a book review so of course we all read it!!! 😝😝

Joystir59 · 27/02/2025 21:52

Plato's Republic at 14

TeaRoseTallulah · 27/02/2025 21:52

HadtoExclude · 27/02/2025 21:50

Flowers in the attic by Judy Blume. Our reading teacher told us all it was totally inappropriate when someone did a book review so of course we all read it!!! 😝😝

You're getting your books/authors mixed up. Judy Blume would likely be furious to be compared to Virginia Andrews 😉

ToBeOrNotToBee · 27/02/2025 21:53

InfoSecInTheCity · 27/02/2025 18:53

Clan of the Cave Bear from Mums bookshelf when I was about 11. Now one of my very favourite series and writers but at the time not the most age appropriate read in some parts.

Same!!!!

TaranFollt · 27/02/2025 21:55

I read Virginia Andrews books at age 13 and noted her obsession with incest, but was too young to understand the broader abuse dynamics. (I even remember being on a holiday in France whilst reading the series. )
I also read Lace by Shirley Conran at a similar age and was very perplexed about the goldfish scene....😬

NewMarmiteJar · 27/02/2025 22:03

I remember my mum suggesting Flowers in the Attic by VA when I was still at primary school, I think I read all of them.

Ok I was an avid reader and had probably run out of books on the bookcase but I mean, you know, nothing to see here!

DorothyStorm · 27/02/2025 22:06

On the flip side, one book I read when I was too "old" for it was On the Road (Jack Kerouac), I couldn't get into the exciting transient lifestyle because I was too busy thinking "his poor mother, how must she be feeling!"

Ive always said I read On the Road when I was too old too! I was early 20’s!

Thegiantofillinois · 27/02/2025 22:10

DorothyStorm · 27/02/2025 22:06

On the flip side, one book I read when I was too "old" for it was On the Road (Jack Kerouac), I couldn't get into the exciting transient lifestyle because I was too busy thinking "his poor mother, how must she be feeling!"

Ive always said I read On the Road when I was too old too! I was early 20’s!

I was too old for catcher in the rye. I'd done my teenage angst phase and just found him really fucking annoying.

Gottogetoutofthisplace · 27/02/2025 22:13

Oh, so many! And have re-read them all so many times through adulthood, each time uncovering a different ‘layer’ of the book as i mature as a woman. The one that sticks out the most would probably be The Robber Bride by Margaret Attwood, identifying with each of the characters in turn and on deeper levels with each re-read.

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