My mum has COPD, Heart failure and limited mobility. She is on palliative care and in a nursing home on oxygen therapy. I’m finding it hard to do normal daily stuff knowing she is declining. Her oxygen levels are now at 80 and she is very confused and forgetful. She is still eating and drinking a little but keeps removing her nasal cannula. My partner told me to stop obsessing about her sats but it’s hard. I just don’t know how much time we have left. I don’t know what to talk to her about when I see her as I feel consumed by making sure she is comfortable. How have other people coped x