A bit philosophical this one, so might slide down the list for it's boredom factor, BUT!
I would love to hear MN's thoughts on this.
I can't recall the author (french academic sort), but read a book some time ago which suggested that the world is made up of creators (artist's/producers/business owners) and consumers (the plebs
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That the consumer class, regardless their actual 'class' background, were to a large extent manipulated by the creators, yet would never actually become too aware of it. So the idea was that the consumer blindly followed, whilst telling themselves they were subversive, original, whilst the creator class were the only one's in control.
And a lot more blah blah blah, but it led me to thinking....I have never been rich, but I did own an animation and illustration business between 1998-2016. I worked all over the world and had a huge Internet presence back in the day. I lived a very low key lifestyle, as did my DH of the time (music industry), but eventually had to get out of it as I longed for a very different kind of life - that of the everyday.
I now have that but have given up a great deal. We didn't have kids but once the house was sold (it was modest) we both ended up renting and living off savings. I have a great life regardless, and love my new work in a conservation field, although I will never again witness the adoration and pay-checks that I once earned. I have done this by choice, so appreciate that not everyone would or could.
My point is, I ultimately HAD NO CONTROL. It was an illusion. Perhaps the theory only includes extremely wealthy corporate 'creators', but all the same, it was a rat race, a hell wheel, and after a very short time, absolutely stopped being creative in the regular sense of the word.
I wonder about how we perceive success, and how it will always look desirable to those who haven't experienced it. I feel freer now that I am the 'consumer' class, although I (like most) would welcome a pile of free money
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Do we really think that the very wealthy or successful are 'free'? The thought interests me, anyway!