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18m sleep regression. Please help

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AtWitsEnd21 · 24/02/2025 09:36

Looking for tips or advice please
DS is 17m. For about the last week he has been waking from 10.30 and not sleeping again until 2/3 and waking frequently between then and 7. He is crying hysterically and writhing around. Initially we thought it was an ear infection and took him to the GP but nothing could be identified. I’ve given him Calpol even nurofen to no avail. We thought he was perhaps getting too much daytime sleep so we transitioned him to one nap 12.15-2.30 and bed at 7.30. He has acquired a lot of language and so I thought he might be a bit frazzled by this but the way he is crying looks like he is in pain.
DS is quite a handful, frustrated by his lack of communicative ability he can be very whingey and needs lots of entertaining and the only thing that was holding my mental health together was the fact that he was mostly a good sleeper so I got a break from the crying at whinging at night. I feel like I am losing my mind listening to it 24 hours a day. I also now get to bed for 2-3 hours and have to get up for work. I can’t continue doing 21 hour days it’s impossible.
All advice welcome

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AtWitsEnd21 · 24/02/2025 14:51

Bumping in desperation

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reluctantbrit · 24/02/2025 15:17

For 2 years DH slept on a separate mattress in DD’s room every 6 months for 1-2 weeks because of sleep regression.

it was the only way for us to all get some sleep.

DD would settle with him being there, a lot faster than us going back and forth for hours in the middle of the night.

It stopped as fast as it started, never longer than 2 weeks and she would happily go back to bed on her own and sleep without problems.

AtWitsEnd21 · 24/02/2025 15:26

reluctantbrit · 24/02/2025 15:17

For 2 years DH slept on a separate mattress in DD’s room every 6 months for 1-2 weeks because of sleep regression.

it was the only way for us to all get some sleep.

DD would settle with him being there, a lot faster than us going back and forth for hours in the middle of the night.

It stopped as fast as it started, never longer than 2 weeks and she would happily go back to bed on her own and sleep without problems.

Thanks for this, DS screams so loud we have no choice but to take him out of his room as he wakes up his brother who will then scream for me making it a totally unmanageable situation. I can’t believe his sleep have changed so much in such a short space of time.

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