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Mortgage - what happens to the house if I die

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Lessthenhe · 15/02/2025 12:19

What will happen to our house if I passed away?

Id just like to understand what will happen to our house if I were to pass away. I own the house with my wife and we have a £360k mortgage on a £600k house.

I cannot qualify for life insurance due to pre-existing conditions.

Would the bank demand immediate repayment of the outstanding mortgage? My wife is a lower earner so wouldn't be able to qualify for a mortgage.

I cannot qualify for life insurance due to pre-existing conditions. However, I have a death in service benefit with my employer.

Please no comments about that is a massive mortgage. I regret this but we have a 5 year fix that has recently started.

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Lessthenhe · 15/02/2025 12:39

2dogsandabudgie · 15/02/2025 12:24

I always thought that when someone got a mortgage it had to be tied in with a life insurance policy so that in the event if death the mortgage would be paid off. How much is your death in service benefit? Is that enough to pay off the mortgage if you were to die?

The death in service benefit would be enough to pay of the mortgage.

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titchy · 15/02/2025 12:40

The death in service benefit would be enough to pay of the mortgage.

What's the problem then? You die, DIS benefit pays off mortgage. Your wife owns house outright.

TheEllisGreyMethod · 15/02/2025 12:40

Lessthenhe · 15/02/2025 12:39

The death in service benefit would be enough to pay of the mortgage.

I don't understand what your question is if your wife has a death in service benefit that would pay off the outstanding mortgage amount?

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Anotherfrozenpizzafortea · 15/02/2025 12:41

Lessthenhe · 15/02/2025 12:39

The death in service benefit would be enough to pay of the mortgage.

Problem solved then.

Fedupatforty · 15/02/2025 12:43

@Lessthenhe we were in a similar situation when buying our first house as DH couldn’t get life insurance due to a health condition. Our mortgage was contingent on him getting life insurance insurance so we ended up with a specialist insurer with some fairly hefty premiums. Our broker advised that his death in service benefit through work would have been accepted by mortgage company as well only he’d just changed jobs so hadn’t built one up that covered the outstanding mortgage - maybe yours does? Or maybe your broker found a lender that was happy to lend without the insurance. I think the main reason lenders ask for insurance is because they don’t like having to evict widows: bad PR I guess!

kaela100 · 15/02/2025 12:43

Why wouldn't you qualify for life insurance? Just because you don't meet one insurers criteria doesn't mean you won't meet another. If you have a terminal or life limiting illness you need to speak to an IFA immediately to see what they can do. Alternatively you could sell up and downsize now so it's one less thing for her to to worry about.

Under the current circumstances, without life insurance or a lump sum to pay off the mortgage, your wife would need to sell the house more or less immediately after you die.

meganna · 15/02/2025 12:44

It's definitely not compulsory, I've had 3 mortgages over the past 10 years and none of the banks/building societies required it. I do have life insurance but not the full amount of the mortgage.

Apileofballyhoo · 15/02/2025 12:44

I wonder if you could get life assurance covering you in the event of your death from something that is unrelated to your pre existing condition.

peachgreen · 15/02/2025 12:45

When DH died the bank gave me a mortgage holiday and allowed me to pay off a chunk with his death in service payment. They then switched the mortgage so it was in my name only.

Winter2020 · 15/02/2025 12:46

If the death in service is enough to pay off the mortgage then your wife should be able to use it to pay off the mortgage and keep the house.

Presuming:
You own the house as joint tenants or if you are tenants in common you left her the house in your will - or it goes to her via the laws of intestacy - no will (if you have children after a certain amount they would get some of your estate under laws of intestacy- when there is no will.

You have nominated your wife for your death in service payment and your employers honour this nomination (no reason that they shouldn't for a married couple that are together)

Basically if you want your wife to have the house and the death in service - and you make sure that this is in place legally - then your wife can pay off the house with the death in service and keep it.

https://www.gov.uk/joint-property-ownership

https://www.gov.uk/inherits-someone-dies-without-will

Mortgage - what happens to the house if I die
Lessthenhe · 15/02/2025 12:48

2dogsandabudgie · 15/02/2025 12:30

Your wife would be forced to sell the property so that the mortgage could be paid off if your death in service benefit did not cover it.

Death in service benefit would cover the whole mortgage.

Would the bank let her remain in the property provided she was keeping up with mortgage payments?
We have savings.

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FriendlyWerewolf · 15/02/2025 12:49

Lessthenhe · 15/02/2025 12:48

Death in service benefit would cover the whole mortgage.

Would the bank let her remain in the property provided she was keeping up with mortgage payments?
We have savings.

Yes they would - assuming she is a joint tenant.

JimHalpertsWife · 15/02/2025 12:51

Lessthenhe · 15/02/2025 12:48

Death in service benefit would cover the whole mortgage.

Would the bank let her remain in the property provided she was keeping up with mortgage payments?
We have savings.

Why would she need to keep up with payments if your death in service cleared the mortgage, there'd be no payments to make.

Lessthenhe · 15/02/2025 12:52

AnSolas · 15/02/2025 12:37

The banks can not not give a mortgage as the home (at point of sale) should always be worth more that the loan and the person have the ability to service it. It was ruled direct disability discrimination.

Insurance is a bolt on (up selling) originally used to protect wives who could not work due to children or social/ legal bar.

So on death the house is sold the loan repaid and the remaining money is first used to settle other outstanding loans or bills. Only once nobody is owed can money be passed on.

Lessthenhe you need to read your T&C as you both are separately and jointly liable for the whole amount. In theory if your death did not breach the contract and your wife could service the repayments on time and in full a court would not grant a reprosession order.

Thank you.
We have some savings so she should be able to service the mortgage.
My death in service should allow her to repay the whole mortgage.

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JimHalpertsWife · 15/02/2025 12:53

So then why wouldn't she be able to stay in the house? You are married yes? Is she also on the deeds?

Winter2020 · 15/02/2025 12:53

Lessthenhe · 15/02/2025 12:48

Death in service benefit would cover the whole mortgage.

Would the bank let her remain in the property provided she was keeping up with mortgage payments?
We have savings.

The bank would work with your wife. It is in their interests. It would take a long time to repossess a house and evict the occupants and is in no-ones interests when the money is coming to pay it off.

They might want evidence of the death in service cover amount. They might still charge interest which will then accrue while they wait for the settlement so the amount owing could rise a bit. - I don't know banks policies on this so I just assume it is a possibility.

mitogoshigg · 15/02/2025 12:55

My mortgage had a box i had to rock to say I had life cover / death in service in excess of the mortgage amount, they didn't require proof.

In answer to op's question, if your wife couldn't afford the payments and you don't have sufficient death in service or insurance they will require her to put the house on the market asap. It differs between lenders but they will have a bereavement department and they will have dealt with this situation before.

I do suggest you look at specialist life assurance providers including via the support groups for your medical situation, sometimes it is possible to get mortgage insurance which is slightly different to life cover.

Lessthenhe · 15/02/2025 12:55

JimHalpertsWife · 15/02/2025 12:51

Why would she need to keep up with payments if your death in service cleared the mortgage, there'd be no payments to make.

I am assuming death inservice payment would take many months to clear. I have no idea but I am assuming it won't be quick.

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Lessthenhe · 15/02/2025 12:56

JimHalpertsWife · 15/02/2025 12:53

So then why wouldn't she be able to stay in the house? You are married yes? Is she also on the deeds?

Yes, married and both on the deeds.

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ohtowinthelottery · 15/02/2025 12:57

My DS has just got a mortgage without life insurance. He's single with no dependents so why would he pay for insurance?
I accept that if his status changes in future he'll need to reconsider and it might cost more then but atm it's not needed and the bank didn't ask for it. He does, however, have cover for illness/redundancy

mitogoshigg · 15/02/2025 12:58

If you do have sufficient to cover the mortgage their bereavement team will assist her to make the arrangements to pay it off, contrary to popular belief, they do try to help customers

Over40Overdating · 15/02/2025 12:59

I am in a similar situation @Lessthenhe in that I have a mortgage and no life insurance due to pre existing conditions. I did try to get cover for peace of mind but have been turned down by every company my broker and I have approached.

If your death in service benefit is enough to pay off the mortgage, then the house would be owned outright by your wife, surely? Is she on the deeds? I’d go back to your broker for clarity to be honest.

NZDreaming · 15/02/2025 12:59

@Lessthenhe we were advised to take out life insurance even though DH’s death in service would cover the mortgage as that’s going on the assumption that you drop dead while still employed. If you were on long term sick and let go or just generally made redundant and then died, you’d get nothing. You might be able to get an insurance policy that precludes death relating to your health condition. Alternatively your wife needs to understand that the house will have to be sold in the event of your passing. A lot of people have that situation and she’d get the property equity.

Supperlite · 15/02/2025 13:01

The only way to truly know is to read the terms and conditions of the mortgage itself.

SoNiceToComeHomeTo · 15/02/2025 13:03

Lessthenhe · 15/02/2025 12:39

The death in service benefit would be enough to pay of the mortgage.

In that case your the situation in regard to the house will be fine. Your wife will own the house outright and can decide whether to stay in it or to downsize if she needs to.
I am sorry you are so ill.

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