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Alan Grant, Adam Dalgliesh, Lord Peter or Roderick Alleyn.....

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CurlewKate · 15/02/2025 10:37

You can only pick one. Which is it to be?

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Sherararara · 15/02/2025 10:42

Alan Grant. Never know when a dinosaur might appear.

Nothitrockbottomyet · 15/02/2025 10:43

Lord Peter

Much as I'm not a fan of the aristocracy I do have a great liking for Dorothy L Sayer's books.

WeegieGrannie · 15/02/2025 10:46

Lord Peter, although I mostly know him through the radio dramas, as played by Ian Carmichael.

OneLilacEagle · 15/02/2025 10:53

Handsome Alleyn all the way!

HellonHeels · 15/02/2025 11:01

Lord Peter. He's relatively emotionally stable and has tons of money.

Dalgliesh has emotional issues. A bit too intellectual. All that poetry would do my head in.

Dont know the other two, new reading awaits!

TeaAndStrumpets · 15/02/2025 11:15

Lord Peter. Kind hearted and loyal. Luxury motoring. Plenty of books in his house.

Lentilweaver · 15/02/2025 11:16

Dalgliesh all days of the week.

EmpressaurusKitty · 15/02/2025 11:19

Harriet Vane.

Abra1t · 15/02/2025 11:21

Adam

KateTheShrew · 15/02/2025 11:25

Lord Peter.

Falderalagain · 15/02/2025 11:29

I'll have Alan - can't be doing with married men, and don't really know Adam.

Bluebandedhawk · 15/02/2025 11:42

Adam - love him.

Bluevelvetsofa · 15/02/2025 11:58

Adam Dalgleish

EarthyMamma · 15/02/2025 12:02

I agree with EmpressaurusKitty definitely Harriet Vane as played by the divine Harriet Walter!

(I still love her and think she's an amazing actress. I've met her twice and was struck dumb both times, having had a crush on her for 50 years and more!)

Ddakji · 15/02/2025 12:03

Lord Peter. I don’t really like blonds, but he’s witty, funny, intelligent and loaded with a very nice car and a flat in the centre of town so I can put up with the blondness 🤣.

maximist · 15/02/2025 12:04

Roderick Alleyn for me.

Nothitrockbottomyet · 15/02/2025 12:04

EarthyMamma · 15/02/2025 12:02

I agree with EmpressaurusKitty definitely Harriet Vane as played by the divine Harriet Walter!

(I still love her and think she's an amazing actress. I've met her twice and was struck dumb both times, having had a crush on her for 50 years and more!)

Yes when I read the books I always imagine Harriet as Harriet.
She was obviously made for the part.

IntermittentStream · 15/02/2025 12:11

EmpressaurusKitty · 15/02/2025 11:19

Harriet Vane.

Yes! Peter is a disaster. He has untreated PSTD, can’t stir without his sinister all-seeing manservant, and all his sexual/romantic partners before Harriet were either idiots (was she called Barbara? The very young girl he fell for at university and who ditched him for some hard-bitten old major during the war) or women he appears to have paid for their favours. Ugh.

Plus I’m surprised his habit of singing ‘Auprès de ma blonde’ when he feels frisky on honeymoon doesn’t make dark-haired Harriet scream.

And Adam Dalgleish (only speaking from the novels, have never seen any adaptations) is another one with lingering issues from the death of his wife and child, a crashing intellectual snob, a chilly, solitary born bachelor, a total scion of the Establishment who lives for his job, and a total fun-sponge.

At least you could have fun with Peter at a party. Dalgleish would stand alone at the window, staring out onto the dark, inwardly disapproving of whatever the drink is, and composing a poem about a murdered child which he will publish in an award-winning collection and then bite the head off anyone who mentions it, ever.

Whatever Emma’s friend is called (the nice Cambridge lesbian? Annie’s partner) is right. AD is bad news.

Plus literally every straight woman that meets either AD or PW falls for them.

Harriet all the way.

IntermittentStream · 15/02/2025 12:13

Nothitrockbottomyet · 15/02/2025 12:04

Yes when I read the books I always imagine Harriet as Harriet.
She was obviously made for the part.

Harriet will be forever Harriet for me. It’s the only time I’ve ever considered the validity of that de-aging CGI Whatsit, so someone could make a full series of Gaudy Night with her starring as HV.

LadyMonicaBaddingham · 15/02/2025 12:23

Lord Peter (even better with Bunter as well)

CurlewKate · 15/02/2025 12:56

Hey-rules is rules. I mean, obviously Harriet, but she isn't on offer.

Adam would be off limits for me-one of my laws of relationships is never,ever contemplate a "fixer upper". Alan has nerves- but I think livable with ones. And he has flair and money. They're all crashing snobs-although Peter less than the others. But you'd have to deal with Gerald and Whatshername. Alleyn has good contacts in the theatre and arts world so you could always get tickets

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Ddakji · 15/02/2025 12:58

CurlewKate · 15/02/2025 12:56

Hey-rules is rules. I mean, obviously Harriet, but she isn't on offer.

Adam would be off limits for me-one of my laws of relationships is never,ever contemplate a "fixer upper". Alan has nerves- but I think livable with ones. And he has flair and money. They're all crashing snobs-although Peter less than the others. But you'd have to deal with Gerald and Whatshername. Alleyn has good contacts in the theatre and arts world so you could always get tickets

Dealing with Gerald and whatshername (Helen) would be quite entertaining, though. And you’d have the Dowager as your MIL which would be a hoot.

Talisin · 15/02/2025 12:59

Rory Alleyn - has been my book boyfriend for at least 30 years at this point. Love reading about Lord Peter but would run a mile on a personal level, but like everyone else would totally go for Harriet who is awesome. Adam Dalgliesh, way too intimidating. Alan Grant (and I’m assuming this is Jurassic Park Alan Grant), probably my second choice if the lovely Inspector Alleyn had already run off with Troy.

MimsyBorogrove69 · 15/02/2025 13:02

Lord Peter - embodied by Edward Petherbridge.

merryhouse · 15/02/2025 13:12

I think Alan Grant is the Josephine Tey one Grin

I've only read The Daughter of Time so can't really comment on him, though I did like the way his mind worked (Thomas More was Henry the Eighth!)

Must admit the only one I'm really acquainted with is Lord Peter, for whom I have a Bit Of A Thing. Aren't we supposed to assume he had a fling with Marjorie? and probably a couple of others too but she's the one we meet.

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