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Do you have a "mind's eye"?

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CurlewKate · 10/02/2025 09:53

I was just listening to a podcast where someone said they have no mind's eye- they can't visualise things in their heads. Apparently, some people can visualise something in colour and 3d, some in colour and 2d, some in black and white 2d, some just as a hazy image and some not at all-no image at all, just words. I realise that now I can't think about which I might be....I THINK I'm 3d colour, but I don't know! You?

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weareallcats · 10/02/2025 18:40

Moonlightstars · 10/02/2025 17:23

I have ADHD but absolutely no mind eye. I didn't realise how vividly people saw things until last year. I struggle to remember the faces of my children when I'm not with them. I do wonder if this makes me a bit more rubbish at recognising people.
I do have horrible hallucinations sometimes though which seems a bit unfair !

There is so much variation - maybe neurodivergence has nothing to do with it!

I do get very vivid and realistic hypnogogic hallucinations, usually spiders, but occasionally other things too.

DontCallMeBaby · 10/02/2025 18:42

Kittylechat · 10/02/2025 14:37

I'm a 3D colour kinda gal as well. It blew my mind when I realised other people didn't visualise in the same way as I did, as I'd naively assumed we all visualised in the same way.

When I was at school, one activity we had to do in a maths class was looking at around 20 potential nets of cubes and we had to visualise which ones would make a cube and which wouldn't. I, and a few others, whizzed through it, but so many others just couldn't picture it in their heads at all and were getting very frustrated that they couldn't complete what they had assumed would be an easy task. It's a fascinating really.

The cube nets were an ‘aha’
moment for me. I can do them by talking my way through them - okay, the pointy bit of the heart points at the square, so it could be A or C, not B, can’t tell about D etc. DD could do them while singing - clearly doing something different to me. Then I learned about aphantasia and realised she was seeing and manipulating the shapes in her head 🤯

I think I have good visual memory, but no ad hoc access to it. So if you ask what shop is next to say the local chippy, I don’t know. But if I go along and they’ve repainted the front, or it’s a totally different shop, I’ll know. I also can’t give directions but once I’m travelling I know the junction when I get to it.

I have very poor autobiographical memory, which is mostly rubbish. On the plus side it does mean no flashbacks to traumatic events.

The one odd thing I wonder about is something with faces … there were a few people I first met masked up during covid. When I met them unmasked, their lower faces weren’t how I’d imagined them - but I’d never consciously imagined them. And I couldn’t picture what they were meant to look like … just not that.

I dream in all senses, and have an inmer
monologue that rarely shuts up (sometimes catch it singing songs without my conscious input) but no minds eye at all.

wigywhoo · 10/02/2025 18:44

PorkHollywood · 10/02/2025 10:23

Yes, full 3D technicolour. I was amazed when I read others haven’t got it.

Same! I thought everyone did 🙈

CrystalSingerFan · 10/02/2025 18:49

Longma · 10/02/2025 17:54

I can't see any of it.
When I close my eyes the world goes blank, and black/grey.

Not reddish-black, or maybe bluer/black if there's more light is in the room?

If you've closed your eyes in daylight, and put a hand over your closed eyes, does the visual stimuli get noticeably darker?

Lyannaa · 10/02/2025 18:59

Boxalot · 10/02/2025 18:32

How do people recall memories if they have no mind's eye? For me it's like a film playing with gaps...

I remember things that people said, word for words, 20, 30 years after the fact. Objects and things that I've seen, places I've been, not so much.

dairydebris · 10/02/2025 19:05

DontCallMeBaby · 10/02/2025 18:42

The cube nets were an ‘aha’
moment for me. I can do them by talking my way through them - okay, the pointy bit of the heart points at the square, so it could be A or C, not B, can’t tell about D etc. DD could do them while singing - clearly doing something different to me. Then I learned about aphantasia and realised she was seeing and manipulating the shapes in her head 🤯

I think I have good visual memory, but no ad hoc access to it. So if you ask what shop is next to say the local chippy, I don’t know. But if I go along and they’ve repainted the front, or it’s a totally different shop, I’ll know. I also can’t give directions but once I’m travelling I know the junction when I get to it.

I have very poor autobiographical memory, which is mostly rubbish. On the plus side it does mean no flashbacks to traumatic events.

The one odd thing I wonder about is something with faces … there were a few people I first met masked up during covid. When I met them unmasked, their lower faces weren’t how I’d imagined them - but I’d never consciously imagined them. And I couldn’t picture what they were meant to look like … just not that.

I dream in all senses, and have an inmer
monologue that rarely shuts up (sometimes catch it singing songs without my conscious input) but no minds eye at all.

This is what is so interesting to me. The fact that you know there's a change in shop front or peoples faces aren't as you'd 'imagined' leads me to think we still have that mental image in there somewhere, it's just not accessible.
I'm exactly the same as you describe. Dreams in all senses, have to talk myself through pictures, recognition but not recall.

Cookiesandcandies · 10/02/2025 19:05

RaininSummer · 10/02/2025 10:44

I don't know if I understand this. If you don't have it does that mean if I said to you, for instance, 'imagine a pink cat in a tree', that you can't see that image in your head? If so, that blows my mind.

Nope - I can just hear / imagine the words with no visual.

When describing it to people I use an example like, imagine a cat in a tree. What colour is it? In my mind it has no colour, it's a concept not a car I can see.

Irridescantshimmmer · 10/02/2025 19:10

I can visualise in detail, in both colour and 3D. Helps with my sewing and though I'm just learning, today I visualised how to sew a polar fleece lining to a pink and blue hats and yes, it worked.

It was my first attempt and I now have 2 lovely warm fleece lined hats I croched.

Garlicworth · 10/02/2025 19:20

falkandknife · 10/02/2025 14:36

It’s got everything to do with hearing sounds because by definition an internal monologue is something you can hear in your own head.

Again, as I’ve explained, it’s more semantics. Some people say they don’t have an internal monologue, because they don’t speak to themselves in their own head etc or hear words in their head on a day to day situations.

I totally get why they would say they don’t have it, but some people say they don’t understand what it would feel like, but my point is, is simply being able to hear the words in your head, that’s it.

Edited

What, you actually 'hear' your inner voice as if it were a real sound? 🤯

This is like when I found out people actually 'see movies' behind their eyes!

Both phenomena sound to me like hallucinations. I've only had these experiences under hypnosis.

But ... I can picture what's in the salad drawer of my fridge. I'm not seeing it like I was really looking at it. It's a mental reconstruction, as detailed as I choose but it isn't an image or a movie. My inner voice is constant, but it's not a sound. I read in what I think of as my voice but it doesn't really sound like mine or anyone else's.

I honestly don't think I'd like to have full 3D, technicolour, surround-sound movies playing in the background of my life!!

falkandknife · 10/02/2025 19:28

Verv · 10/02/2025 15:56

This is very frustrating because you keep explaining that it is semantics and not listening when i tell you that i do not hear anything in my head, and i am not unusual in this.

We’ll have to agree to disagree then.

CurlewKate · 10/02/2025 19:34

Interestingly, the person in the podcast said he couldn't do nets either. And I can-I have quite a vivid mind's eye.

My inner monologue is my own voice talking- I remember when I was a child and on my own, I actually spoke it aloud. I Donny do that any more, but I do hear my own voice in my head.

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Garlicworth · 10/02/2025 19:38

Doggymummar · 10/02/2025 10:52

No I don't. I don't have memory either. That's CPTSD for you

Interesting. Some of the therapy I did required visiting my younger self during a traumatic incident and, as an adult, helping her. The instructions said to imagine the scene as a black-and-white movie, filmed from a distance, then step into it as our present selves. I found the first part worked well for me, then the helping segment was more of a narrative. It was a good exercise but I guess it could be terrifying for someone with the kind of immediate first-person experience PPs are describing here.

I'm really short on memories, too. Pretty grateful for it on the whole!

falkandknife · 10/02/2025 19:39

Garlicworth · 10/02/2025 19:20

What, you actually 'hear' your inner voice as if it were a real sound? 🤯

This is like when I found out people actually 'see movies' behind their eyes!

Both phenomena sound to me like hallucinations. I've only had these experiences under hypnosis.

But ... I can picture what's in the salad drawer of my fridge. I'm not seeing it like I was really looking at it. It's a mental reconstruction, as detailed as I choose but it isn't an image or a movie. My inner voice is constant, but it's not a sound. I read in what I think of as my voice but it doesn't really sound like mine or anyone else's.

I honestly don't think I'd like to have full 3D, technicolour, surround-sound movies playing in the background of my life!!

Edited

I understand what you’re saying about hallucinations, but aren’t hallucinations where the person experiencing them can’t tell that they aren’t real so they are frightening for those experiencing them?

Internal monologue is just my thoughts, not a voice that anyone else can hear but it’s me thinking. I suppose it’s like saying to yourself in your own mind “Shall we have chicken or beef curry tonight?” not a noise that anyone else can hear and not audible.

The quietest audible whisper that ends up just a thought. God it’s hard to explain 🤣

Nannyfannybanny · 10/02/2025 19:42

Ilovelowry,that sounds a bit like my photographic memory. I can remember being in a pram in my grans garden....I'm 74. I know someone with ADHD, they have just been prescribed meds to stop the "inner voice" and she said it's bliss, the silence, and that until now, she didn't realise that no everyone has an inner voice. I used to be told I was "weird" at work.its annoying when you're trying to relax and get to sleep, like being in a cinema!

happy2025 · 10/02/2025 19:49

Maybe this is to do with visual perceptual skills which everyone has a varying degree of. I was surprised to learn my DD had a low score and in few years was diagnosed with ADHD. She struggled with non verbal reasoning type skills or to find things which were in front of her (couldn't picture the object she was looking for).
Get an ed psych test - for those who are curious to know where they stand and why

quirkychick · 10/02/2025 19:58

@happy2025 I'm good at visual perceptive skills, we used to do a test in primary school - see in colour, 3d and have synaesthesia. Good at cube nets, too.

@Nannyfannybanny I have a clear internal monologue, can play conversations - I used to say them out loud when young too. I was often told it was a sign of madness 😠

happy2025 · 10/02/2025 20:00

@quirkychick - that's what I meant. Those with poor Visual perceptual skills are unlikely to have 3D mind's eye visualisation.

EmeraldDreams73 · 10/02/2025 20:03

So interesting. Yes, I can see/visualise things in 3D and colour. If I try, I can also change elements of it (for example, changing the colour of paint/curtains when considering decorating choices).

I do have a VERY active internal monologue, too.

quirkychick · 10/02/2025 20:04

@happy2025 absolutely, I'm a visual learner. I can do auditory, but prefer visual. I think it's fascinating how different people's minds work.

hurlyburlywhirly · 10/02/2025 21:29

Love this thread. I only found out about this when I was describing how a room at work would look when we had it redecorated and the person I was talking to said "you do realise I have absolutely no idea what you're describing don't you?"

I was gobsmacked she couldn't visualise the walls being a different colour but she absolutely couldn't.

I think this is why I love travel so much. It adds new worlds and sounds and smells to my internal range that I can access again whenever I like. I could be on a Thai beach in my head right now.

And I spell by copying the word I can see in my mind.

Wordsmithery · 11/02/2025 00:23

I have no mind's eye. I am also faceblind (prosopagnosia) and have often wondered if the two are connected.

Angrymum22 · 11/02/2025 02:36

hurlyburlywhirly · 10/02/2025 21:29

Love this thread. I only found out about this when I was describing how a room at work would look when we had it redecorated and the person I was talking to said "you do realise I have absolutely no idea what you're describing don't you?"

I was gobsmacked she couldn't visualise the walls being a different colour but she absolutely couldn't.

I think this is why I love travel so much. It adds new worlds and sounds and smells to my internal range that I can access again whenever I like. I could be on a Thai beach in my head right now.

And I spell by copying the word I can see in my mind.

You’ve just touched on another area. I can imagine smells. Perfumes are easy, but the smell associated with a memory can be weird.

Stepping off a plane after landing in Greece is one I can smell easily, the hot dry air combined with pine resin and a strong hint of rotting rubbish.

My favourite body shop oil from my late teens - apple blossom.

The smell of rain after a long hot spell of weather.

I think that writers must have a both minds eye and minds nose to be able to describe a setting or location. And maybe the ability to visualise what the author describes is what separates readers from non readers ( as a pastime).
I also think it forms the basis of empathy. I often find descriptions of accidents or violent crimes really distressing because they play out visually in my mind.
The accident in Wales were four teenagers drowned when their car left the road haunted me for days, not just because I had a DS around the same age but the image of them trying to get out of the car just wouldn’t go.

FrutenGlee · 11/02/2025 06:27

I have discovered my probable aphantasia thanks to this thread. However I am great at spelling. To be confident of giving someone correct advice though I would need to write the word down to see it. So I clearly have a visual expectation of what the correct spelling would look like. My visual memory is terrible so I don’t think it’s that. I’m not remembering seeing the word written down from a time before. So I must have some visual imagination?

discdiscsnap · 11/02/2025 12:16

As said earlier no minds eye but I do have a pretty constant internal monologue going on in my head. (Similar to how some sitcoms have them usually at the end of the episode) I also have conversations with my monologue, is That just me????

discdiscsnap · 11/02/2025 12:19

Also just read that people with aphantasia often have higher IQs. My iq is (or was when I was younger) pretty high. My common sense is low tho 😂

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