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Do you have bookcases filled with books at home?

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CatteryCatss · 08/02/2025 12:50

I grew up without books at home, but my DM frequently read magazines.

Surprisingly, I turned out to be a big reader in adulthood. I have bookcases either side of the chimney breast filled with books (as well as LEGO sets and a couple of ornaments) I also have a bookcase on my stairs and in the office, which are filled.

Whenever I visit my DM, I’m reminded of my childhood without books and it makes me quite sad!

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RampantIvy · 08/02/2025 17:52

I've got an app to scan the bar codes to make a digital library of books.

What a good idea. I have spent a happy couple of hours updating a spreadsheet with all of our kindle books - how sad am I?

Arraminta · 08/02/2025 18:04

RampantIvy · 08/02/2025 16:36

You see, for me, a house without books is a house without a soul.

And yet another bingo.

Why do some people think they are morally superior by owning acres of bookshelves. Do only lesser mortals use eReaders?

Yes, I do have bookshelves full of books, but I also have a kindle. I weed out books that I know I will never reread because I just don't have the space for another bookcase. It has nothing to do with "priorities", just lack of space.

I never understood how having lots of books is a middle class indicator, mind?

@CatteryCatss having the storage space for them perhaps?

This thread is sounding a little boasty TBH.

I don't consider myself morally superior. Yes, I have over a thousand physical books. But I also own 2 Kindles AND my trusty library card.

But at heart I'm a literary Luddite. I love the feel, heft and scent of books. They are wonderfully tactile. I like to inspect their binding and assess the quality of their paper stock. If I buy a beautiful but damaged hardback book I will spend a very contented couple of hours repairing it properly.

For me, books are about so much more than just the reading of them.

mathanxiety · 08/02/2025 18:04

RampantIvy · 08/02/2025 13:39

Some of you must live in enormous houses to accommodate all those books.

I guess this ties in with a pp comment about owning lots of books being the preserve of the wealthy/middle classes.

Nice little bit of reverse snobbery there.

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mathanxiety · 08/02/2025 18:05

RampantIvy · 08/02/2025 14:07

A hat trick of bingo's

People are allowed their opinions, you know.

mydogisthebest · 08/02/2025 18:08

We have floor to ceiling shelves in our spare bedroom absolutely crammed with books. We also have a bookshelf on the landing, in the hall and in the living room.

I have a pile of books on my bedside table and on the floor next to my side of the bed.

We have just bought 3 Billy bookcases for our living room.

I do have a kindle but don't like reading books on it. I like the feel of books, particularly hardbacks, and the look of them on the shelves.

ViolinsPlayGentlyOn · 08/02/2025 18:09

I’m a big reader but don’t see the point in books. I just don’t value them as physical objects, and as I rarely re-read anything I’m happy with my Kindle.

I do think it’s important for children to have physical books, though. They can decide for themselves later whether they like them or not.

savingthespecs · 08/02/2025 18:09

It's not about saying you love books, have a house full.

It's when people are rude about other people's houses.

As you say, we're all entitled to our own opinions and we can all live how we want to. Slagging off other people's houses because they are not like yours is mean.

AllThePotatoesAreSinging · 08/02/2025 18:09

Hundreds of books. The kids (1&4) have about 200 books. I’ve got several hundred. Charity shopped over 1000 books when I moved a few years ago as we wouldn’t have space at the new house.

Found space. Buying books.

I have a Nook and a Kobo. I prefer real books.

Fluffyowl00 · 08/02/2025 18:10

No. I don’t really understand it. I keep some that I reread or use for reference or am yet to read. I’ve read hundreds of books. No way I want dusty funky books all over the place just so people can see I’m well read.

PopGoesBang · 08/02/2025 18:12

I did have more books. But last year we had to make space. So in an almost heart wrenching situation, I had to get rid of most of my books. I kept ones that meant a lot, or that I've read multiple times.
The children still have their books and I still read, just pass the books on now.

My next task is to part with my uni books, I'm not in the career they are for, and are out dated now. But I worked hard with them and would have been in that career if it hadn't been for an injury I had no control over. But keeping them isn't going to change anything.

theduchessofspork · 08/02/2025 18:12

Yes but not as many as I used to - I used to love piles of them, but it makes me feel a bit claustrophobic now - too much stuff. Also I mostly use a kindle these days.

My parents weren’t big readers - although they read the papers religiously - but they had quite a few bookshelves and they were big on us reading.

Stealer · 08/02/2025 18:13

These threads come round on MN often. Everyone competes to have the most books.

RampantIvy · 08/02/2025 18:14

I think the difference is that I don't get attached to material possessions the way some people do unless they have a sentimental association. I get attached to people and animals rather than things.

Everyone competes to have the most books.

Indeed.

mathanxiety · 08/02/2025 18:14

Skade · 08/02/2025 16:13

I wasn’t allowed to keep books for the 35 years I was with ex-H, he didn’t want them cluttering up the house. The week after he left I made myself a bedroom bookshelf and got what little I had left down from the loft. When I get my own house when the divorce is finally done I plan to fill it with books in every room! Books are my comfort and make me feel safe and happy, I’ve read my copy of Jane Eyre countless times since I was a teenager.

Excellent!

theduchessofspork · 08/02/2025 18:17

ItGhoul · 08/02/2025 16:26

Why? It doesn’t mean people don’t read. My mother grew up in a little council flat with no bookshelves but the whole family went to the library every week and were very keen readers.

Some people just like books as objects, and find them familiar and homely. You could insert fire place or art or pot plants or a garden in the PP’s sentence, it doesn’t carry extra weight because it’s about books.

Stealer · 08/02/2025 18:17

i don't get attached to books. Plus no one can see my collection of chick lit books set in Cornwall on my Kindle.

qwertyasdfgzxcv · 08/02/2025 18:17

I used to have loads but feel I want less stuff now for ease of cleaning. I use a kindle

wipeywipe · 08/02/2025 18:19

I have more books now I have dc. I read a lot myself but give books away or use my kindle.

SnoopysHoose · 08/02/2025 18:20

It's pretentious to keep books for the sake of it.
I disagree, for people who love books it's quite hard to get rid of them, I feel attached to them to not to just discard them immediately after they've been read.
I did hugely downsize after I moved 2 years ago and I do regret losing so many.

Gloriainextremis · 08/02/2025 18:23

We have loads of books and have two large bookcases plus one small one. The biggest one downstairs is mostly non-fiction, ie gardening, hobbies, cookery, various wildlife ones, a dictionary, Shakespeare and a few other real classics, and some about music. Novels are in a bookcase on the landing. The one behind our bedroom door has genealogy, more cookery, architecture & other history, and some of DH's stuff, mostly things like Bill Bryson and the like.

wipeywipe · 08/02/2025 18:23

These threads come round on MN often. Everyone competes to have the most books.

You can apply that to most MNs threads!

Always competition re who eats the least, exercises the most, goes to the most exotic or remote holiday destination, has the worst treatment from their mother, washes their towels the most, is the best driver, etc. 😆

IroningBoardAgainstTheWall · 08/02/2025 18:24

No.

Because I rarely re-read a book and don't see the point in keeping them.

Probably about 20-30, if which 3 reading now, maybe 4 in the "to read" pile, and the rest are sentimental/regular re-reads
So like I have my granny's copy of Lord of the Rings.

UpMyself · 08/02/2025 18:25

Many, many bookcases here, and boxes filled with booksn and piles of books everywhere. I pass books on regularly but still they breed.

Grumpyoldpersonwithcats · 08/02/2025 18:25

TheAmusedQuail · 08/02/2025 16:38

Exactly. Middle class signifier. Wanting to appear middle class.

Question. If you have lots of books but ALSO a fcuk off big TV in a media wall what class are you? Hmmmmm.

We have a library upstairs which doubles as my (wfh) office, bookshelves in the upstairs hallway and bedrooms, and piles of books on bedside tables. Very few books downstairs - and a big TV on the wall of our grey living room 😁.
Most people coming to the house don't go upstairs so wouldn't know.
We are both big readers and the books are for our benefit not for show.

TheAmusedQuail · 08/02/2025 18:27

Gloriainextremis · 08/02/2025 18:23

We have loads of books and have two large bookcases plus one small one. The biggest one downstairs is mostly non-fiction, ie gardening, hobbies, cookery, various wildlife ones, a dictionary, Shakespeare and a few other real classics, and some about music. Novels are in a bookcase on the landing. The one behind our bedroom door has genealogy, more cookery, architecture & other history, and some of DH's stuff, mostly things like Bill Bryson and the like.

When did you last read a Shakespeare?

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