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What do you think of as “London”?

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CruCru · 02/02/2025 14:42

On another thread I got into a discussion on which places are London and which are actually somewhere else. I think that only places with a London postcode are in London, otherwise they are in the Home Counties. However, quite a few people disagreed with me as they said that they lived in an outer London borough. I didn’t want to derail that thread (which was about something else) so thought I’d start my own.

To my way of thinking, if I sent a letter addressed to someone at 123 Their Street, London, Their postcode, it would only be sensible to do so if they actually live in London. If I did that for someone who lives in Harrow, Croydon or Kingston, doing so would cause confusion (but it might still arrive if the postcode was correct).

What do you think?

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CharityShopChic · 02/02/2025 17:28

Alternatively are your local buses red? If yes, then London

This is the best definition I have read on this whole thread.

wipeywipe · 02/02/2025 17:29

@IamSallyBowles ok, yes your theory doesn't work.

gatheryerosebuds · 02/02/2025 17:31

pinkpedi · 02/02/2025 17:02

I remember when I moved back in the day and we actually gutted my new phone number wasn't 071 but 081. That was too far out! 🤣

Yes it had far more kudos when you lived in zone 4 but still had an 01 dialling code 🤣

MsJuniper · 02/02/2025 17:33

I grew up in Zone 5 and always had an N or NW postcode. It's hilly so there are great views of central London and the tube links are great so I spent most of my social and working life travelling inwards. I've always been quite certain that I grew up in London!

Hiccupsandteacups · 02/02/2025 17:33

Ooo it’s tricky. I live in an outer borough. In zone 4. It’s a 10 min bus journey to the end of the end of the closest tube line.

I tend to say Greater London. My mum is a real country person from a village and when she comes to visit she calls friends and says “I can’t talk right now I’m in London!! But we are not central London so it does make me laugh. We have a Home Counties postcode and not far from M25.

also she says she can’t drive around us as it’s in London! Again we are not in Trafalgar Square haha

EmmaMaria · 02/02/2025 17:36

If it is south of Birmingham, and not Cornwall, Devon or Wales, it's "London" 😁

MadameCholetsDirtySecret · 02/02/2025 17:37

If you can vote for the Mayor of London you live in London.

PinkArt · 02/02/2025 17:38

wipeywipe · 02/02/2025 16:19

Well I count z3 as suburbs (I live there). Places like Croydon and Kingston are in London now and have been for some while.

The postcode thing, not sure. Does Mitcham have a London postcode? Someone I know who lives there classes it as Surrey but I think it's definitely London.

Mitcham has a CR postcode and technically a Surrey address. It's zone 3 and at the north end a 10 min walk from Tooting Broadway though.
It wouldn't cross my mind that I don't (in Mitcham) live in London. I vote for the mayor, pay my council tax to a London borough, live in zone 3, commute on the tube...
The only difference the postcode makes it that it made my flat about £10k cheaper, between postcode snobbery and not being in Wandsworth with its dreamy council tax rates!

Gribbit987 · 02/02/2025 17:38

Technical answer: Metropolitan services assist you (police, nhs etc), vote for London mayor, in one of the 32 boroughs. But anyone who has been to Sutton or Romford knows it isn’t really London 🤣

Real London is a postcode that begins: N, S, E, and W.

Not places like: Romford, Richmond, Kingston, Bexley, Erith, Bromley, Croydon, Sutton… All the newer bits that are now Greater London boroughs but absolutely don’t feel like London at all. They don’t have a London ethos and are right wing/lacking diversity.

2 insane instances when this was an issue:

A client wanted some stuff sent to their home address. Staff sent to the address provided. Item returned by Royal Mail due to incorrect address. Address provided: “Uxbridge Road, London, WD3”. WD3 is Rickmansworth in Hertfordshire. There is an Uxbridge Road in London postcode W3. Royal Mail had crossed out the “D” and tried to deliver it in Acton (W3), London. Ultimately returned.

Customer furious. Kept on insisting she lived in London because Rickmansworth was on the Metropolitan line 😆

My grandmother had a dementia test. One of the questions she got “wrong” was the doctor asking what part of London she lived in and her insisting she lived in Surrey - she lived in Kew. Post address: Kew, Richmond, Surrey. TW postcode. But the doctor refused to accept her answer and was incredibly condescending about it until I intervened.

JustKeepSwimmingJust · 02/02/2025 17:40

Everything inside the M25, definitely. But I subscribe to Luton and south, Reading and east. It’s a long way to London from here!

pinkpedi · 02/02/2025 17:44

wipeywipe · 02/02/2025 17:03

  • Generally I would say 1-3 is proper london. 4 is suburbia but it seems to be ever expanding. I remember a northerner trying to argue with me once that Wandsworth wasn't real london. *

My bit of Wandsworth is pretty suburban as was the bit of Lambeth I grew up in. I don't see much difference between z3 & 4 tbh.

Where?
Putney is a bit suburban Wandsworth, it even is considered a different zone by Wandsworth council. Lambeth?
I still think 1-3 is london. Rest are hanging on.
I love I live in london and don't like or believe in the expansion

Gloriainextremis · 02/02/2025 17:49

PotaytoPotahhto · 02/02/2025 16:47

So was Hampstead. Being Middlesex doesn’t change that Harrow is a London borough.

Yes, I know. However it is for the people who actually live there to make that call.

CruCru · 02/02/2025 17:52

PotaytoPotahhto · 02/02/2025 16:41

Well it is the London Borough of Harrow so she’s being a bit silly that she doesn’t know who she has been paying her council tax to…

She was born before 1960. I don’t think she ever paid council tax while living in Harrow (she now lives in Buckinghamshire).

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greencushionsfromikea · 02/02/2025 17:58

@Iloveyoubut but I can travel to central london in 30 minutes from Leighton Buzzard - does that count?!

I think 1-3 is London, zones 4-6 London 'burbs, beyond there is outskirts.

CruCru · 02/02/2025 17:59

BlackberrySky · 02/02/2025 17:10

Well according to Ryanair, Luton is in London 😂

Yeah, Luton definitely isn’t London. Neither is Gatwick.

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CruCru · 02/02/2025 18:12

Actually the only airport in London is London City.

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SoapySponge · 02/02/2025 18:12

If it's in the old LCC area it's London.

As a result, Croydon is in Surrey and Bromley is in Kent.

My DF was born in 1924 in Bromley over a shop 10 yards inside the borough boundary. Till the day he died, he was Kentish man and no way was he a Londoner.

CruCru · 02/02/2025 18:18

CruCru · 02/02/2025 18:12

Actually the only airport in London is London City.

I’m wrong, there’s also the London Heliport in Battersea (SW11). I don’t think many ordinary people use it though.

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Kneidlach · 02/02/2025 18:26

My grandmother had a dementia test. One of the questions she got “wrong” was the doctor asking what part of London she lived in and her insisting she lived in Surrey - she lived in Kew. Post address: Kew, Richmond, Surrey. TW postcode. But the doctor refused to accept her answer and was incredibly condescending about it until I intervened.

There is definitely an age/generational element to this. My grandparents lived in Ilford, which was unequivocally in Essex until the boundaries changed in the 1960s. When they lived there it could easily be seen as a separate town nearby or possibly on the outskirts of London. But London sprawl, and the changing demographics of the area, mean it’s now much more London-y than it was.

So while older generations may still think of Ilford as being in Essex, I think for anyone under 50 or so it’s most definitely part of London.

batshitaboutcatshit · 02/02/2025 18:45

It absolutely blows my mind that unknowing people fly into Gatwick airport thinking it's anywhere near London.

dramallama25 · 02/02/2025 18:49

I feel a bit sheepish saying London as I can walk over the boundary to Kent. It feels more suburban where we are. Having said that, we have a London postcode and live in a London borough, and it was a London phone number when we had a land line years ago.

I think of anywhere inside the North/South circular as London personally. We do (just) fall outside of that though!

mugglewump · 02/02/2025 18:53

If you have a London phone number, it's London.

HauntedBungalow · 02/02/2025 18:55

Plaided · 02/02/2025 14:58

Absolutely no scientific basis whatsoever, but this is what I would class as London proper (inside the red line). I don’t think of Croydon as London, it’s a proper town in itself (yes it’s technically a London Borough, but so it Sutton and that’s pure suburbia).

I'd narrow that at the top. Barnet isn't London.

IbizaToTheNorfolkBroads · 02/02/2025 19:02

I grew up in SW1 and SW11.

To me, London is the "compass direction" postcodes, SW4, N5, SE22 etc, but not the postcodes that are the abbreviations of the outer towns, like the CR Croydon postcode.

Plaided · 02/02/2025 19:03

HauntedBungalow · 02/02/2025 18:55

I'd narrow that at the top. Barnet isn't London.

Yes, it was a quick draw with a finger on my phone, I’d also cut more of the south out. I think East Finchley can be classed as London though and think that’s in Barnet?

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