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Are the majority of only children girls?

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CrocsNotDocs · 27/01/2025 02:36

That is, is it more likely for families to have more than one child if the firstborn is a boy?

Thus is purely anecdotal- most of the only children I know are girls or women. Just wondering if there is anything in this.

I have no agenda to this post- just hiding in a coffee shop from my kids on the last day of Aussie school holidays. All I see walking past are families with one girl child!

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Dontsparethehorses · 27/01/2025 02:37

nope - I know lots of only children who are boys

Redglitter · 27/01/2025 02:56

Off the top of my head the families I know who have only one child are all boys

TheAirfryerQueen · 27/01/2025 05:02

Mine's a girl. But we tend to have girls first anyway on my side.

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Birdbox181 · 27/01/2025 10:09

No, I don't think so. I know 4 only boys and 1 only girl. DS is an only child.

Purplepostit · 27/01/2025 10:11

The people walking past might have more children (boys or girls) but they’re at a club, at a friend’s house, with their aunt…

BobbyBiscuits · 27/01/2025 10:13

I think most only children are so because the mum wasn't able to have any more kids. So I don't think they'd necessarily feel they were having an only child by choice. I could be wrong of course. I don't think there are more female than male ones either. I mean, I know both?
I would want a girl though personally. If I wanted kids at all that is!

Fluck · 27/01/2025 10:13

I’m an only child and I’m a girl - but that’s because my mum had 3 miscarriages after me then my parents split up. They did try for more.
My cousin is an only child and a boy.
I don’t think it’s as clear cut as people only want girls so once they have them they don’t have anymore, if that’s the connection you are seeing!

TitusMoan · 27/01/2025 10:15

CrocsNotDocs · 27/01/2025 02:36

That is, is it more likely for families to have more than one child if the firstborn is a boy?

Thus is purely anecdotal- most of the only children I know are girls or women. Just wondering if there is anything in this.

I have no agenda to this post- just hiding in a coffee shop from my kids on the last day of Aussie school holidays. All I see walking past are families with one girl child!

Of course not

Your sample size is tiny. Try looking at the whole population.

GameOfJones · 27/01/2025 10:15

I don’t think it’s as clear cut as people only want girls so once they have them they don’t have anymore, if that’s the connection you are seeing!

I agree that is what is being implied. For what it's worth most of the only children I know are boys.

user1471538283 · 27/01/2025 10:16

I'm an only and a girl. I think my DF would have liked more but it didn't happen. My DS is an only and I would have liked another biological child but it didn't happen.

I think it's more likely that only child are because parents are either one and done or would like more but can't. I don't think it's based around chasing the gender you want.

Dandylione · 27/01/2025 10:16

Small sample size of DS' class - 4 only children. Three boys one girl.

ThatsNotMyTeen · 27/01/2025 10:17

I know more boy only children than girls.

Ultrarunner · 27/01/2025 10:19

I'm a female only child. My mother would have loved a big family but after three late-term miscarriages, all male, showed a hormone imbalance that meant she couldn't carry boys, she couldn't bear the thought of more heartache and my father had a vasectomy.

MuddyBootsRugby · 27/01/2025 18:26

I know lots of only boys.
I don't think they stopped because of the sex of the child.
Usually they had infertility issues, separated or had some traumatic birth first time round.

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