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What do you do when having a shitty day to cheer you up?

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PeanutPies · 23/01/2025 09:53

What do you normally do? Just having one of those days - what do you normally do to make yourself feel better and hopeful on such days?

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Newtrix · 23/01/2025 15:08

LunaNorth · 23/01/2025 09:54

Get out in the fresh air and daylight. Just a ten minute walk would do it.

Us too. Nothing better.

TeenLifeMum · 23/01/2025 15:09

Rant to dh and play with our puppy. This helped me yesterday after a particularly soul destroying day.

NotbloodyGivingupYet · 23/01/2025 15:14

Five minutes fresh air in your situation. A quick jog if that was practical. At this time of year I stop off on the way home and buy myself a bunch of daffodils or tulips, they always cheer me up and don't cost much. Just thinking about doing it keeps me going until home time.

Girasole02 · 23/01/2025 15:25

Egg on toast, brisk walk even if it's just local streets, sometimes listening to an audio book or podcast. Take hot drink in a travel mug.

Rinkadinka · 23/01/2025 15:35

When I had a ‘proper’ job I used to work out how much I was paid per hour and then ‘work waste’ that hour by doing things I wanted to like filing my nails in the loo, reading a mag in the staff room, Google jokes then go tell a colleague, offer to make hot drinks (even though I don’t like them). Basically anything to feel like I was sticking it to the man. It’s a bit different now I’m home with a toddler!

worried3456 · 23/01/2025 15:39

Sorry OP. 15 mins walk near nature. Yoga with adriene for sadness. And make myself dance to some tunes while making a treat meal/snack (but beware too sugary can affect your mood negatively)

RuralSage · 23/01/2025 15:59

watch funny cat videos on Youtube

madamweb · 23/01/2025 16:04

Get down to the beach for even 5 minutes, or walk in some woods.

Watch some comfort TV or read a book that's an old favourite

Wear some pretty or sparkly jewellery (doesn't have to be pricey) or a little bit of perfume

Cuddle the dog

Watch videos of tortoises on you tube etc Grin

Titasaducksarse · 23/01/2025 16:05

A long soak in bath and an early night.

Candlebook · 23/01/2025 16:06

LunaNorth · 23/01/2025 09:54

Get out in the fresh air and daylight. Just a ten minute walk would do it.

This

WhatsTheEffingPoint · 23/01/2025 17:50

Another one I do....colouring in. I have a sweary colouring in book and some lovely pencils!

GreyAreas · 23/01/2025 20:03

This was me yesterday. I wasn't sure why I was feeling out of sorts but when I told DH over dinner and talked about my day I realised what it was. Then I went and watched The Traitors in the bath.

MrsSethGecko · 23/01/2025 20:04

A walk and a pork pie. Not necessarily at the same time.

whatisforteamum · 23/01/2025 20:41

Walk home it's over a mile.
Hot coffee
Curtains closed
Bath
Cuddles with my cats.
Early night

PeanutPies · 23/01/2025 23:01

@TeenLifeMum unfortunately ranting to husband not an option- he is not the supportive listener kind. He will probably want me to make a list of options and present to him.

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PeanutPies · 23/01/2025 23:16

Thank you all for your suggestions- I went for a quick walk during lunch. However upon getting home realised I’ve left the laptop charger at work- so will have to do an hours drive each way tomorrow to get it - but determined to fit in a proper walk during lunch.

Im feeling rather overwhelmed and to top it work has got increasingly stressful- feel like I want to hold someone’s hand and have a bloody good cry.

listening to music and practicing box breathing. ( both from the suggestions here) and off to bed.

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