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Why Do People Say “ Mental Health”When They Mean “ Mental Health Problems”?

113 replies

RabbitsRock · 21/01/2025 12:42

It’s annoying! Everyone has mental health! Anyone else find it annoying?

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CremeEggThief · 21/01/2025 14:44

I agree it's annoying but I don't think it's that surprising. People shorten or use short-hand for everything...

NorthernBogbean · 21/01/2025 15:02

Because 'mental illness' became a taboo phrase. I remember when it became harder to use it in professional contexts sometime in the late '90s. It came to be interpreted as a slur. So then people had to have the more euphemistic 'mental health problems' even if they had a mental illness (i.e. distinct from a wider range of temporary or intractable states of mind). The further contraction to just 'mental health' is symptomatic of a reluctance to name and categorise.

AmethystRuby · 21/01/2025 15:18

BabysittersClub · 21/01/2025 14:31

They don't though. That's the whole point.

People do say 'l have mental health'.

never heard anyone say 'i have mental health'. 'mental health issues', 'due to mental health' etc yeah, but 'i have mental health'? come on now.

AmethystRuby · 21/01/2025 15:25

Wendolino · 21/01/2025 14:30

Yes they do, I've often hear people on tv, radio and in real say "I've got mental health", when they mean they have mental illhealth.

than they have grammar issues, its not something which is said by someone who is otherwise well spoken by anyone's standard. its not a saying so people who say 'i have mental health' must say it because they cannot articulate what they mean properly. give them a break ffs.

Whoknew24 · 21/01/2025 15:27

I work for a council, the people I deal with now refer to it as “ I’ve got the mental health”.

unfortunately like everything it’s a bandwagon and some people jump on to avoid taking any responsibility for anything.

We all have mental issues in varying degrees.

MassiveSalad22 · 21/01/2025 15:27

Sorrelbird · 21/01/2025 13:34

YABU. The answer message on my local GP surgery’s phone says “if you are suffering from mental health contact x” and it’s read out by one of the doctors!!!

Well to be fair if you’re suffering with mental health then your mental health probably isn’t in a good way. Just like you can suffer with your physical health.

ILoveMyCaravan · 21/01/2025 15:28

Yes! This really pisses me off. It's like saying someone has "physical health"! Makes them sound "healthy"

EmmaMaria · 21/01/2025 15:30

Whilst I kind of agree with you OP, I suspect that it arises from the stigma and the fact that "the mentally ill" conjures up very negative connotations.

Hysterectomynext · 21/01/2025 15:30

Idratherbepaddleboarding · 21/01/2025 12:44

It makes me so annoyed, particularly when professionals use it. TBH it just makes people sound a bit thick!

Totally. So many ‘professionals’ use it. I normally challenge it but can’t always.

i say yes we all strive to have mental health. Which is met by confusion.

there’s also the phrase - john IS mental health.
a person is actually mental health.

oh ffs don’t get me started on these ‘professionals’

Arlanymor · 21/01/2025 15:33

MooseAndSquirrelLoveFlannel · 21/01/2025 14:21

I think the vernacular has been distorted over time and I blame the casual use of phrases such as "it affected my mental health" or the "it gave me anxiety" as its cheapening and diluting what the terms mental health, mental health condition/illness actually is.

No one really seems to understand the difference between a genuine condition that causes a decline in good mental health and makes people genuinely poorly and those people just having a bad day and feeling a bit shit.

It’s exactly this, it’s almost become shorthand.

CrystalSingerFan · 21/01/2025 15:40

OldTinHat · 21/01/2025 13:53

@CrystalSingerFan Yes, they do. I'm diagnosed with many mental health illnesses, am medicated and I am referred to as mentally ill.

I'm not a person with a 'mental health problem' which suggests it can be overcome. I am genuinely ill, unfortunately.

Thanks for the reply. And good luck combatting your illnesses.

Also, I hadn't particularly thought that people using the phrase 'mental health problem' implied it was fixable. Best wishes, folks.

Wendolino · 21/01/2025 16:29

AmethystRuby · 21/01/2025 15:25

than they have grammar issues, its not something which is said by someone who is otherwise well spoken by anyone's standard. its not a saying so people who say 'i have mental health' must say it because they cannot articulate what they mean properly. give them a break ffs.

Well don't get so worked up about it. Be positive, you've learned something new and from now on you'll be able to use the correct terminology.

AmethystRuby · 21/01/2025 16:34

Wendolino · 21/01/2025 16:29

Well don't get so worked up about it. Be positive, you've learned something new and from now on you'll be able to use the correct terminology.

I do use it correctly. what are you on about? i'm saying people dont say what OP suggests and if they do, they have some grammer issues so theres no point being annoyed at it!

Wendolino · 21/01/2025 16:38

AmethystRuby · 21/01/2025 16:34

I do use it correctly. what are you on about? i'm saying people dont say what OP suggests and if they do, they have some grammer issues so theres no point being annoyed at it!

Well don't get annoyed then. Calm down dearie.

Yuckyyuckyuckity · 21/01/2025 16:42

I find it really annoying too. I have some older relatives who say things like 'I have blood pressure' (when they mean high blood pressure) and it drives me crazy because everyone has blood pressure, otherwise they'd be dead!

Sportacus17 · 21/01/2025 16:45

It’s because they are a bit stupid.

AmethystRuby · 21/01/2025 16:45

Wendolino · 21/01/2025 16:38

Well don't get annoyed then. Calm down dearie.

haha! touche

HeffalumpsAndWoozlesAreHoneyRobbingTwats · 21/01/2025 16:49

LaMarschallin · 21/01/2025 13:28

Because they don't realise what they're saying and think it sounds knowledgeable.
Also people love dropping random medical terms into conversations. I've seen yet another mention of "projectile" vomiting here today - it's just vomiting. All vomiting is, by its nature, somewhat projectile but "projectile vomiting" is an important symptom.
And the number of people capable of diagnosing various personality disorders on the strength of a couple of incidents is remarkable.

It sounds like you have a lot of decent wisdom to impart.

MadKittenWoman · 21/01/2025 17:00

Agree!

mouldygarlic · 21/01/2025 17:13

CalicoPusscat · 21/01/2025 13:21

Does it matter? People can talk about mental health in general

You obviously don’t understand the words if you think that it doesn’t matter.

overthinkersanonnymus · 21/01/2025 17:24

It's my pet peeve.

"I've got menkkle health!!" You've also got arm heath, leg health and eye ball health love. What are you on about?

overthinkersanonnymus · 21/01/2025 17:31

threelittlescones · 21/01/2025 14:37

I wondered if I was the only one who noticed or cared about this 😂 It's very annoying.

Almost as annoying as the many, many people who say they/their child is ASD or is ADHD or is SEN etc. You mean have/has?

Edited

That winds me right up!!

"I'm ADHD!"

Are you? You're a disorder are you?

You HAVE ADHD. And also maybe a bit thick. You are not ADHD.

OldTinHat · 21/01/2025 17:35

@CrystalSingerFan Thank you 😊

DazedAndConfused321 · 21/01/2025 17:41

It pisses me right off. "I got mental health" is a vile earworm I've had for too long!

It makes me think of people who say "My son is down syndrome" or "That down syndrome kid" which I think is awful.

Vroomfondleswaistcoat · 21/01/2025 17:48

But companies don't help, by having 'mental health days'. We take this to mean 'days to benefit your mental health', but it's being understood as 'days off because you suffer from poor mental health.'

I tend to say I am ADHD, because I AM attention deficit. I lack attention. I know I could just say I am ADH because you can't BE a disorder, but then everyone would wonder what the hell it stood for.