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I'm devastated, and sick of this life honestly

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Weeeeh · 20/01/2025 16:31

Got a 1 year old, always done everything alone, found my private renting with the savings i had, and had an alright life with money from maternity leave. since my work stopped paying me my life changed. My "partner" which does 0 for his family is a bum who stays home all day without worrying about bills or food, cause unfortunately it's all on me. cause if i don't pay it me and my baby will struggle. so i need to pay, and he doesn't care. my saving are all gone, and for food until the middle of next month i got £100 for nappies and all included. he knows that, and still asks me for money for stuff for himself, and when i say no he goes scatty. i'm sick of him. and he just doesn't leave, i don't know what to do no more. i'm going back to work really soon but how is it fair that im gonna be away from my baby, that i literally took care alone every second, to go to work and him still staying at home?
he promising he would get a job since even i was pregnant, nothing ever changed i've worked up until my 38 weeks cleaning, and all that time he was at home.
this is not fair and i hate him a lot. my mind is going crazy, everything is on me, the welfare of my kid and the bills it's too much, specially cause my bills are ever higher because of him tv on all day.

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Oreyt · 20/01/2025 18:26

@ClawedButler

Oh yer cause women will put up with anything as long as the sex is good?

Shinyandnew1 · 20/01/2025 19:24

if he doesn't work he doesn't pay half of the rent.

I don't understand the 'if'.

You've said he doesn't have a job, so presumably he isn't paying half of anything. Is that right?

Tell him you don't want to be with him anymore, ask him to leave and tell the landlord that you want just your name in the tenancy.

Divastrout · 21/01/2025 06:20

Does he have a job?

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Divastrout · 21/01/2025 06:20

Does he have a job?

Did you even read the OP?

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