Hello, I am hoping for Mumsnet lived experience opinions.
I want to pre-face this (extremely long) post by saying I've seen my GP several times over the last 18 months and presented to a&e once re my issues. I have had the following tests, full blood test (fine), coeliac screening (negative), 2 qfit tests 6 months apart (both negative), H pylori test (neg), calprotectin test (normal), an abdominal US (normal except they discovered I have one kidney, brand new information to me!), failed endoscopy (severe emetophobia/anxiety, I fought them off even under sedation 😞), barium swallow test (reported no hernia, no ulcers, no tumours, but very obvious and severe refluxing of the stomach contents into oesophagus). So because of the blood and stool tests being negative and the NICE guidelines regarding these the GP's hands are tied and no further testing is required.
My symptoms are - 5 years of acid reflux, 18 months of constipation, repeated impactions, overflow diarrhea, spasming sensation under right ribcage (painless), pain in 3 areas of the right side, one to the right of my bellybutton, one low right near hip, and third right side pain in the area between ribs ending and hip starting. I also have pain just under my sternum above belly button. Excessive wind, on/off bloating, insane gurgling noises like it literally sounds like a drain.
Things I have tried: permanent diet changes for the reflux so no longer consume alcohol, chocolate, tomatoes, any spices whatsoever, no carbonated drinks, I also take a daily ppi. I also quit smoking. For the lower stomach I have tried fybogel for 6 months, (I'm now switched on to daily laxido 5 sachets per day to stop the impactions), I have tried flaxseeds, chia seeds, kiwis, I drink insane amounts of water per day, I've tried fibre tablets from Holland and Barrett, I take daily magnesium (3in1 nutrition geeks brand), yoga, walking, stomach massages.
In sept 2024 my son was diagnosed with coeliacs disease (with the exact same symptoms as me constipation, reflux, stomach pain, nausea) and I went gluten free with him, since stopping gluten I have noticed some positive changes - my nausea is FAR less frequent, my appetite has increased and I've managed to gain 3lbs (yay!! I had lost 12lbs over the year due to lack of appetite) so despite testing negative myself for CD I think the fact that I've had some obvious changes without gluten shows I definitely had issues with it. In December the dietician recommended my son go lactose free also so I have done this alongside him but seen no difference for myself (definitely for him). I am now wondering about a casein intolerance for myself because for the last 9 months I have noticed (sorry this is grim) these white balls coming out separate from my stool and after much research I believe they could be casein curds, I know this is much more common in children than adults but I never had this before in my life until 9 months ago, it's not every stool but several times per week.
I have a private GP appointment next Friday where I plan to request an abdominal CT scan, mainly because I absolutely can't afford a private colonoscopy which is almost £3000, the GP appointment was £150 and a CT scan is more affordable for me and at least can check out my single kidney situation along with my bowels and my reproductive organs, right?
Genuine apologies for how long this is but this is affecting my every day life, I've had to leave work due to how severe and constant the symptoms are and I feel like doctors have just left me with taking laxido and ppi every day and it barely manages the situation all because I don't have red flags of cancer. Does anyone have any insight or similar experiences?