Have you ever had a friend dislike you?

[diehardfirst]

My friend really dislikes me. I only see her in a group now.

When I had a bad haircut she kept bringing it up - opening the door to me and gasping and saying “I can’t get over how short it is”, despite knowing I was super self conscious about it.

Tries to talk me out of seeing/speaking to any men. I don’t even tell her anymore.

Said she knows I’ll always suggest meeting up so she doesn’t bother asking me.

All this changed once she got a boyfriend. It’s like she became so competitive for no reason.

With friends like that, who needs enemies. I'd sack her, and get some new ones.

I do thankfully have other friends.

And I only see her as part of a group.

But yeah … she has a friend who she’d class as her best friend (we’re all the same age) and she’s her biggest cheerleader, but with me it’s just snide comments and put downs.

Jealous.

That's a frenemy not a friend.

My friend has ignored me and slagged me off to others for a year. She wants a house where I live, a part time job like me and wants to get married. Funnily enough she liked me when I was a single parent and she used to enjoy turning her nose up at me

What makes you view her as a friend?
She's just someone who you interact with as part of a group.
Stop telling her anything about what you're doing or planning.

Not as an adult no, because the first sign of anything like that, I'd just distance myself.

She is an emotionally stunted idiot, surrounded by other idiots. They are jealous of you and want to drag you down. Don't waste your time or headspace on them.

Yes, I ve a big gang of idiots who I was in school with who are mid 40s teenagers who never grew up, are broke, trapped and angry. They are jealous, told me so, seeking drama and attention from their bored, trapped, other halves. Their get rich quick schemes bombed, some 9f them are drug takers. They can't or won't live independently and move on with their lives and they want to stir up unnecessary drama, in their idle lives.

These are not friends, distance yourself. LOSERS.

I would tell her to stfu.

Don't Bother, just bin them off. They want confrontation, best to drop the rope.