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Remaining friends after romantic rejection

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Rkecpwwm · 18/12/2024 11:38

Just curious if people think this is possible.

Can a genuine friendship continue if one person has an unrequited crush on the other party?

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medianewbie · 18/12/2024 11:46

ime, NO. (Sorry)

LyingWitchInTheWardrobe · 18/12/2024 11:46

I don't think so either, there's always that 'elephant in the room' so nothing will be genuine about any 'friendship'.

Rkecpwwm · 18/12/2024 11:50

I was thinking about the whole "I hope we can remain friends" but it'll always been awkward knowing how the other person feels about you.

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LyingWitchInTheWardrobe · 18/12/2024 12:36

It's just an easy let-out, OP. It's not seriously intended, it's just a way to get away from the situation. I don't know anybody who has been rejected who, after recovering from the initial shock, seriously wants to be friends?

Bettyboo111 · 18/12/2024 13:50

Yes. However anyone new may strongly object.

autumnbake · 18/12/2024 13:55

NO!

From experience with a male friend, I firmly believe if someone tells you they like you, they can never view you in a friendly manner after you reject them, they will always be 'waiting' for the opportunity to arise again.

GroovyChick87 · 18/12/2024 14:05

No I don't think so. Maybe when the crush has faded it might be possible. Otherwise the person with the crush will be clinging to false hope and possibly acting in a way designed to change the way you feel.

Rkecpwwm · 18/12/2024 16:39

Has anyone ever had a friendship end because of this? Has anyone ever decided not to disclose the feelings because they didn't want the friendship to end?

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GroovyChick87 · 18/12/2024 17:51

To be honest I don't think I've ever a male friend that hasn't tried it on with me or made some kind of sexual comment. They were just people I knew casually though. I couldn't have someone contacting me regularly who I knew fancied me. That would be annoying for me and disrespectful to my husband.

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