I wrote here last week seeking advice about the upcoming weekend and party. That was last weekend. You see I was invited to a birthday party as a guest and then some issues and shit hit the fan and my mental health fell on the floor. I really didn't want to go to the party.
I tried to pull out from the party on Saturday making all sorts of excuses but no luck. My person was bending over backwards to really get me to go with him.
In the end I went to the party. I had a bad and stressful day and I never got any time to eat any lunch or supper. I had to leave by 4 with a sit down meal at 6.
Alcohol went straight to my head because I had no meal or food in my belly. Aside from that the evening went well. The party - it ended up being 2 days of celebrations with all day Sunday too. I tried to escape so many times but failed.
I felt so bad come Sunday evening because the weekend was nearly gone and I got no time to kinda fully relax, unwind, recover from my week.
Anyways, there's another party coming up next week. I was invited last month to the party and I happily accepted. However I never knew so much crap was going to be flung my way and my mental health would crash. I don't want to go to the next party. I don't know what to do. It's a relatives party. It should be more calmer than the last time but still, I really don't feel like going. What do I do?
Do I wait til the week of the party and send a message pulling out claiming a sickness.
I accepted the invitation last month when I was feeling well but now I feel like utter crap.