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Would you send your child to school with a temperature?

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IsMyChildTooIllForSchool · 02/12/2024 17:01

38 or above ?

We follow the nhs guide ‘is my child too ill for school’ and keep them off for illness with a fever 38 or higher. We have been told that if we give ibuprofen and/or paracetamol we can send them in with a masked fever ?

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sunflowersngunpowdr · 02/12/2024 20:33

No. Runny noses, colds etc yes but not with a fever.

Frosty1000 · 02/12/2024 21:29

We've just had an email from school re high level of sickness in pupils and staff and it categorically said a temperature is a stay at home situation - no mention of a figure.

Based on that I'd definitely follow your gut instinct and keep at home.

ThInkfirst1 · 25/11/2025 13:17

We sent our child back to school after a week off with a fever and croup. As we got to the school gate this morning, we heard a parent tell the teacher, "My child has a temperature." The child was still allowed to attend school with the other children. We questioned this with the school which told us it's fine under the gov guidelines. Not happy at all knowing parents would send their kids into school knowing they are sick and they will be potentially passing this onto other children over the stupid guidelines. Irresponsible.

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DrProfessorYaffle · 25/11/2025 13:22

A temp tends to make me feel really poorly, so I wouldn't send them in when they're not well enough to be there.

DrProfessorYaffle · 25/11/2025 13:27

AppropriateAdult · 02/12/2024 20:15

I don't really understand the approach to attendance in UK schools. All these measures seem aimed at marginally improving the attendance of the kids who are already getting on well and have a decent attendance record, rather than targeting the kids with very poor attendance who are really at risk of missing out on education. Those families need a one-to-one approach that actually tackles the specific barriers to education they're facing (neglect, chronic illness, caring responsibilities), rather than these daft policies around minor illness which make the numbers look marginally better while turning classrooms into Petri dishes.

This.

It's the same misuse of data that shows poorer outcomes for lower attendance. The poor outcomes are not dose dependent on attendance necessarily and the poor outcomes for children who live with every disadvantage cannot be extrapolated to dc with similar attendance % but living very privileged in other ways lives.

The reasons why some children are not in regular attendance (and their pattern of missed sessions will be different than those for minor illness) are well known. We just don't do enough to deal with the complex and intractable situations. It's easier to make out that your child will never get a job because they missed a week with flu.
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NotrialNodeal · 25/11/2025 13:34

cansu · 02/12/2024 18:02

It depends. If I have a bit of a cold and a temp I take paracetamol and go to work. There is a huge difference between a cold and a temp and the flu. Sometimes I have had a cold where I have felt really dreadful and would not go to work. The problem is many parents let their kids have time off for the most nebulous of reasons. The symptoms are over egged and the child could have been at school. We wouldn't be in this situation if some parents did not exaggerate and often lie.

A cold will never give you a temp. If you have cold symptoms with a fever that is not a cold, but the flu.

Babyboomtastic · 25/11/2025 14:08

NotrialNodeal · 25/11/2025 13:34

A cold will never give you a temp. If you have cold symptoms with a fever that is not a cold, but the flu.

Rubbish.

My daughter (and yes there are other issues) ended up in hospital with a cold (as confirmed by the swabs/bloods) with a temp of 41.

It's entirely possible for half a dozen people to get the same cold, and for some it'll be a minor inconvenience, for some it'll be horrible with feeling ill, achey, really struggling, and maybe one that will end up with a fever or complications.

cansu · 25/11/2025 14:16

I think that's nonsense. Of course you can get a temp with a cold.

DrProfessorYaffle · 27/11/2025 16:27

NotrialNodeal · 25/11/2025 13:34

A cold will never give you a temp. If you have cold symptoms with a fever that is not a cold, but the flu.

That's not true.

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