Hi,
This is random but I’m looking for practical advice and ideas. I’ve needed to leave my relationship for some time but I work full time from home in a stressful job and I’m finding it exhausing with living in a hostile environment constantly too and no one to talk to I can’t make sense of what I should do.
Ive been going through a lot of emotional and sometimes physical abuse (if u call being pushed and squared upto and things thrown at me physical) and have felt trapped for some time, I just feel really stressed about money, I can afford to move out and pay rent on my own but it’s the deposit side I can’t afford, I can’t seem to save that amount up but I don’t want to stay much longer.
He bought a car for me 4 years ago as my credit wasn’t great, I put a 2k deposit down and have paid another 7k off so I’ve paid for it now but despite me asking he’s never signed the car over to me and I need the car for school runs etc.
My sofa that I’m still paying on credit is on the second floor and the window was removed to get this in, I don’t want to leave without it. Does anyone know if removals would do this if I requested it? I have a small time frame to move out in. Saturday when he’s at work til 1, the rest of the time he’s here or can turn up home at any time. I wish I could leave without him being aware but I need to take all the furniture I’ve paid for, I can’t afford to start over without. Just feel really stuck.
I can’t get through to women’s Aid on live chat and can’t see a phone number. I’ve emailed but it can take up to 5 days.
If anyone can give advice I’d really appreciate this, thanks. X